me and this guy friend had become a little more that friends and my mother and sister told me not to become more because him, his brothers, and mom and dad were all trouble.... my sister tells me this from her experience cause she is currently bf/gf with the older brother of the guy im talking about here and shes had tooooo many problems with her b/f and his family that always get in the middle of things .... so she doesnt want me to talk to this guy anymore cause he has caused some problems with me too, and she wants me to just leave him alone completely...... but i've unfortunately already grown a lot of feelings for this guy!! ... its so hard to just leave him alone and not even try to be friends.... i dont know what to do!!!!!!! if i stay talking to him i will catch a LOT of crap from my mom and sister , if i dont talk to him everyone will be happy except me, i know this guy is hard to handle... but like i said i've grown to care for him!!!!
2007-11-08 18:35:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes, things that seem unattainable can have the greatest attraction. make a list mentally with all the pro's v.s.con's in the situation. your family may know things that you do not. i would not totally discount their advice. if you choose to pursue this course ,however, take caution to protect yourself from harm. there is no healthy love that always brings constant heart ache.good luck.
2007-11-11 10:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by coolade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 21:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to leave someone along when you care for him, but maybe if you just distant yourself step by step out of wanting to be attatched to him it might not seem so bad. But at the same time, your sister is also dating someone in that family so why should you be banned. She shouldn't be abled to if you can't lol. I say, stick with him if you care and when you do see the signs back away, and Im sure you'll be smart enough to see them.
2007-11-08 18:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anon E. Mous A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's examine this correctly: you have feelings for a guy that is hard to handle? Hmmm, not good. Listen to your mom and sister. They love you and wouldn't want you to end up with the wrong man. Sometimes, we can be blind, but open your eyes. If you dated a nice guy, they would be happy for you. But they are not happy right now because they know where this is going to end up.
2007-11-08 18:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by WonderGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can move on and grow to care for a better guy that will love you, respect you, and deserve you. Be smarter than your sister was. Don't just settle. Find a real good guy with a good family, and potential to be something when he grows up. You will live a much happier life.
2007-11-08 19:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think.
How hard would it be for you to tell them what they have delivered to you? It must be very serious for your family to be so concerned that they would risk alienating you by giving you their opinion.
Consider the risk they are taking.
Ask yourself what it would take for you to do the same.
Then decide for yourself knowing your family loves you and only wants the best for you.
You can be friends with someone without getting too close or having a serious relationship. Besides if he is as bad as all that he will need someone to write him in Prison.
2007-11-08 18:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then take one step at a time. and be cool about it. show them all that thy are wrong. i hope. good luck. cz it looks like it may be hard to do
2007-11-08 18:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it be okay for your sis to still be dating that guy's older brother but not you?
2007-11-08 18:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by elixery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart and your mind..you have the choice...theres a saying that if you follow your brain u will lose your heart..and if you follow ur heart u will lost ur brain...
2007-11-08 18:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ryan Cataal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋