Ok, me and this girl are like really good friends . We promised each other that we will always be there for each other . I'm close with her parents & brother..and I surprise her by buying her stuff, and occasionally, I act as her boyfriend to tell dudes that bother her to back off.
But anyway, my best friend girlfriend introduced me to her and in the beginning we kissed each other lightly once, nothing big. But we haven't really tried getting close to each other like that now .. I guess we are both scared if we get into a relationship it would ruin our already close friendship.
but we do FLIRT with each other ALOT .. like we would play with each other hands and we would just have playful staring contests, and when i pick her up she wraps her legs around me..
I like her..but i'm more concerned with being her friend right now, because she did just get out of a year and a half relationship..and i guess all she needs right now is a friend.
So how do u think she feels about me ?
2007-11-08 17:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by theGREATEST. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we also call each other "pet names" time from time .. like she'll call me pooks, and i'll call her pookiepie . haha, embarressing i know .
we also call each other "boo". Now .. when we talk to each other online however, there isn't really much of a spark .. it's kinda like the same thing everyday .. "how was your day .. mine was good" and so on and so forth .. nothing special .
So, i ask again .. what do you think she feels about me ?
and .. when we talk online, what can i talk to her about .. the conversation gets boring really quick .. but when we see each other in person, we always have fun .. so girls, what do you like for guys to talk about in conversations online ?
Thank you guys ! I really appreciate your help ..
Name is Andre by the way .
2007-11-08 17:47:11 · update #1
Be careful..since she jsut came out of a relationship, she may be trying to cope with the fact that her old boyfriend isn;t there and turns to you for attention. Not saying that she doesn;t dig you. She may. But its uncertain since she jsut came out of a relationship. Jsut enjoy yourself while it lasts and she sounds liek she feels comfortable with you enough to start something up. But don't rush it. Goodluck. Hope you find your answer somehow.
"Only my opinion"
2007-11-08 17:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Cameron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking her more questions like where is you favorite place to vacation, favorite color, favorite band, favorite movie, what do you want to do when you get out of school, are you going to college, ,etc... Just get more info about her, and she will start to ask you more questions. She may like you, but you did not say how long she has been out of her relationship.
Why don't you try something like this: "I don't know if you would be interested right now, but when you feel that you are ready to date again, if you want, I will take you out to dinner sometime. Just let me know." Just drop it and don't change the way that you are acting, or act as if you are expecting an answer. Just change the subject unless she starts to talk about it.
2007-11-08 17:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy andre, im a gurl and i like for guys to talk about their interests, what they like to do, what songs they like, what kind of tv shows they like, etc, etc... but since you are good friends with her already she prolly already knows all that stuff. maybe talk about something that was funny that happend during the day when she wasnt there... you just kinda type whatever comes into ur head. maybe some new song that came out, or episode of ur guyses favorite tv show or a new movie, or make plans to hang out sometime. just talk about what u talk about in person. or you talk on the phone so you can feel and hear emotions.
hope i helped!
2007-11-08 17:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me like you guys have potential for a good relationship, but I think you are being smart for waiting. She does need time to get over her break up. Sounds like you both have a deep appreciation for each other, and maybe it's love. In time you will see.
2007-11-08 17:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both like each other and make each other happy. I think she likes you as much as you like her. I would ask he to be more than friends, or if she ever thought you could be more than friends.
2007-11-08 18:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by bigjuggies79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you wanna relationship.. go ahead and go for it.. but if you just wanna be her friend.. talk about what happened.. and then just try to continue.. im prety sure your already in teh friend zone
2007-11-08 17:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by DBC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait. if she's really the one you can't live without then don't wait.
2007-11-08 18:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Thoughtful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋