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Is it true once a cheater always a cheater.

2007-11-08 17:40:26 · 24 answers · asked by Jeff 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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2007-11-08 17:49:00 · update #1

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Yes it is. Baby seasons change but people don't.

2007-11-08 17:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no if it was true then why is it that when my dad cheated on my mom they worked it out and stayed together . they started dating when my mom was 12 and they been married now 22 long years. and still married. but it depends on the person and if they find the one they love they can change. so it is not true. once a cheater is not always a cheater.

2007-11-09 01:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2 · 0 1

I think it depends on where you stand in your relationship. I honestly think and knowing this from experience. If your with someone and you feel the urge to cheat it doesnt necessarily mean you are a cheater. I think it means you dont care about that person that much. Therefore you shouldnt be with them in the first place. If you truly cared about the person your with you wouldnt have the desire to or the need to cheat. If you love the person you wouldnt be able to do it. So to answer your question I think if you cheated in the past it could have been because somewhere along the line you werent happy. Now that being said in a new relationship if you are truly happy you wont cheat. Therefore not being a cheater anymore. Just because you cheat once doesnt mean you'll do it forever. You may do it again or ten more times, who knows. It just all boils down to WHO your cheating on and what they are worth to you. My advice would be if your with someone and have the urge to cheat, hold off just long enough to break up with them. I think anyone would agree it would be better to be dumped than cheated on. And that person should be thankful that you dumped them rather than wasted their time on a relationship that barely exists.

2007-11-09 01:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0 1

Yes unless you are kept on a tight leash under serious lockdown by your partner you will always be a cheater again at some point

2007-11-09 01:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bleedingheartz 1 · 0 0

I believe a cheater can change. Cheating is a flaw in a person's character; with strong determination and the motivation to change, it can be reversed....and don't forget prayer....it works!

2007-11-09 01:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Josiemaria 1 · 0 1

I don't believe that. True, some people just cheat no matter who they're with cause they're never happy, but some people really do change. They realize they were wrong and truely regret it. I'd say if u really believe someone has changed, give them a second change, but no third chances.

2007-11-09 01:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Suzy Q 2 · 0 1

No. Even cheater gets cheated sometimes in one or the other way.
Then he'll come to know he should not cheat. it really hurts.

2007-11-09 01:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sadhan 2 · 0 1

I sure hope not at least i would like to think he has learned his lesson if he hasn't i have a big surprise in store for him. I'll cut his f u c k i n g balls off and shove them down his f u c k i n g throat. If you think i sound angry now just wait and see what happens if he does it again. Once is bad enough but twice,well off comes the balls.

2007-11-09 01:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1 1

is some case yes in others no.i guess it depends wether you could see yourself trusting the person that cheated and if you would be thinking all the time if they would do it again.i guess some people learn there leasson but i guess others you learn that it was a mistake to trust them again.ive been cheated on and ive never been able to trust them again coz it was in the back of my mind.but everyone is different

2007-11-09 01:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

oh yea, this is my 2nd marriage all men cheat if they are temped; by other so called women. men who want to feel younger and aviod respnislity. however there is a few that only do it for attention. to get the other spouse to wake-up as towhat they may lose.

2007-11-09 01:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by Valentine 5 · 0 1

No. I'm a cheater and I won't be doing it again.

2007-11-09 01:44:02 · answer #11 · answered by Cochy 6 · 0 3

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