What are the do"s and dont"s in having sex in Islam withur wife.?

Question

i dont understand what it means when people quote the holy quran and add additional info in (brackets.) is it their interpretations or what

Answer 1

The do's are:
1)sex should be made only in the formal marriage relationship
2)husband should treat his wife tenderly and make a foreplay
3)before playing sex both should say bismillah or in the name of Allah and pay a prayer asking God's protection from cruel satans
5)husband should penetrate his penis into the privy of his wife as a normal way
6)after finished sex relationship both should say alhamdullah thanks to God
7)before sleeping husband and wife should wash their privies It is better if they taken a bath (junub bath)
The don't are:
1)husband is not allowed to have anal sex it is abnormal and he will have great sin
2)husband and wife are not allowed to have fornication with other woman and other man .They will have great sin and will be punished
3)Husband is not allowed to force his wife for having sex
4)wife can not reject her husband's demand for sex.except she is ill. or have a menstruationThe angel will be angry if she rejected it. without valid reason
5)husband can not make sex during his wife having a monthly
menstruation.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

I understand that within the confines of the home the woman dresses as her man wishes and is expected to be subserviant in every way and is supposed to yield to her husbands sexual proclivities no matter what.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

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Such questions should be asked only to those of knowledge.

Answer 7

ISLAM is the only religion in the world which talks about SEX with absolute honesty. It has no qualms in being regarded as a religion having an orthodox, medieval age or as some people on this forum like to call it, bronze age value structure. ISLAM regards SEX with utmost respect and holds it as a special emotional and physical need of a human being gifted by ALLAH mainly for the purpose of serving comfort to each other, not without the special motive of procreation. Islam has not liked SEX only for comfort as that gives a materialistic underlining to this special gift given by ALLAH and eventually augments carnal desires in human beings. Almighty Allah says in the Qur'an: "Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring) for your own selves beforehand. And fear Allah, and know that you are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give good tidings to the believers (O Muhammad)." (Al-Baqarah: 223)
Explanation:-In the foregoing verse the word harth (tilth) indicates that only vaginal sex is permissible in Islam, because it is from this place children are produced. The semen lodged in the womb from which offspring comes is likened to the seeds that are planted in the ground, bringing vegetation. Both of them are substances from which something else is produced.
ALLAH'S PROPHET MUHAMMAD(P.B.U.H) had given a HADEES which further explains the above verse from QURAAN. The HADEES has been construed as this:-
A husband and wife are free in their sexual act except for three things they should not indulge in as it will be HARRAM for them:-
1. ANNAL sex
2. sex during menstruation
3. oral sex.
apart from these three they are free in their ways of sex.
other QURAANIC verses and HADITH supporting the above:-

002.222. They question thee (O Muhammad) concerning MENSTRUATION. Say:
It is an illness¸ so let women alone at such times and go not in unto them
till they are cleansed. And when they have purified themselves¸ then go in
unto them as Allah hath enjoined upon you. Truly Allah loveth those who
turn unto Him¸ and loveth those who have a care for cleanness.

Khuzaymah Ibn Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) also reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah is not too shy to tell you the truth: Do not have sex with your wives in the anus." (Reported by Ahmad, 5/213.)

Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has anal sex with his wife." (Reported by Ibn Abi Shaybah, 3/529, and At-Tirmidhi classified it as an authentic hadith, 1165)

One most important element PROPHET(P.B.U.H) used to emphasise on was 'FONDLING WITH WIVES'
.62.17: Narrated Jabir bin 'Abdullah: When I got married¸ Allah's Apostle said to me¸ 'What type of lady have you married?' I replied¸ 'I have married a matron' He said¸ 'Why¸ don't you have a liking for the virgins and for FONDLING them?' Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said¸ 'Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'

Strangely, most proficient of psychiatrists and psychlogists have come to accept the fact that fondling plays a very important role in arousing a woman's desire for sex.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

ask ulamaa. dont ply around with islam ok