Please Read and Interpret? It is long but plz read?

Question

I have been talking to this girl on myspace and I like her so far and think that I might wanna meet her and maybe go on a date. Here is the convo lately. Does she like me or not? I start the convo....then it goes back and forth.

Hi. Hope you have a great day today. And I just wanted to ask you if, I am your type or not? Like you know..I might be someone your interested in that way...or do you have other interests right now? Well I will talk to ya later. :)

Sure you're cute =) I wish Id met you like...three years ago when I was still living in MI, lol. I'm sorry you're sad and pissed off right now (or at three in the morning when you posted your bulletin--yikes did you go to sleep at all last night?? You must be a night owl girl) if its the stuff with your ex you should just try to completely move on and block her text messages and stuff because she sounds really hurtful. It doesnt validate a current relationship to make sure everyone knows how happy you are with it, you just have to be happy, you know?
Yeah I live in a res hall right now with my roommate and sorta with her boyfriend who stays with us like 3 or 4/7 nights a week. Which bothers me a smidge. He's got his own damn house, does he have to sleep here? With her?
(I hope you're having a good day so far!!)

So yeah keep me in mind ;) lol Like I said next time you come to MI we could hook up...well you know I don't mean sex lol but if it happened, it happened. Noooo...I didn't go to sleep last night. I usually am up late anyways but I don't typically stay up 24 hours or more unless I'm really stressed, which the last few days I have been. lol That sucks that your roomies bf has gotta be over there all the time espcially when he does have a house. Yeah...well my ex doesn't make any sense at all...she tries to make me seem all bad and crazy but in return she is the crazy one but oh well, she'll learn.

Sex on the first date?? Scandalous in the most snooty french way possible! I'm irritated with sex in general after listening to my roommate get it on very quietly and gigglingly like I'm a moron? And cant tell when heterosexual couples have sex? I'm happy she's moving back to Green Bay at semester end, she's not right for the college life. We don't pay thousands in tuition to skip all our morning classes and complain about the cafeteria food...she treats school like its pulling teeth and it gets old real fast.
Well I think youre just fine so it must be your ex thats crazy. Sometimes just hanging back and making it obvious what a good thing she left behind makes it easier to deal...you know what they say...'Walk away, crawl back' lol. Sry I'm just offering like...empty advice...i dont really know much about the situation so i dont know how much I can help...

Ahh dude...did i ruin it? lol or r u just busssyyy :)

Hi again =) Are ya gonna try for some sleep tonight?? Thanks for the comments, they make me smile.

Yeah hopefully some sleep. Ehhh...knew it was to good to be true having a pretty girl like you interested in me. Your welcome for the comments. ;)

What do you mean? did I miss something?

Huh? lol..........

Hi! lolzors...I'm gonna try and get some sleep now because I have a morning class tomorrow...you should too! Not enough sleep can make you have hallucinations and crap. Sweet dreams!

(((Btw she is a girl and so am i)))

Answer 1

You need to be more direct. Just ask her if you can get together soon.

Answer 2

Here's the thing, and you're probably not gonna like it, but I'm going to give you a straight answer... no pun intended.

It seems to me like she's probably interested, but why would you invest so much worry into what is essentially text messaging. Here's the problem with communicating through this sort of medium, there's no personal communication going on. What I mean is, you can't hear voice intonations nor see body language nor get a real sense of what the person is thinking or feeling.

Now ask yourself this question: wouldn't just going out and meeting her be worth it even if it turns out she wasn't interested? Then at least you'll know and you won't have to be frustrated with deciphering someone's motivations through text.

So don't worry at all about how people answer this question you posted. Just freaking meet her. Heck, if you try to arrange to meet her and she doesn't want to, even then you'll know she's not interested. But if she DOES want to meet, then chances are she's interested in getting to know you. After that you can figure out how much she likes you and how much you honestly like her.

Good luck!