there's this guy in my university campus, we've talked a few times face to face, just casual chats, and all the while, we used to smile and say hello when we run into each other around the campus. we were just like casual hi-bye friends.
however, after that (recently) it was no longer the case. i don't know why and when things started to change. just that i realised now we don't say hi anymore. instead, when he sees me, he would turn his eyes away or look elsewhere once he sees me.
guys can you please explain this guy to me?? thank you very much.
2007-11-08 17:33:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Regret is by far more painful than finding out the truth!!
You need to confront this strapping Greek god, and tell him your feelings today as you read this answer!!
There's a strong possibility studly has the hots for you too, but is to nervous to confront you. If you don't find out how he feels, your going stew in a live time of anguish!!
2007-11-08 17:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nana Butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it is possible to know from this information alone. Maybe he knows that he really needs to take it to the next level, knows he is failing at doing that, and seeing you reminds him that he is not doing what he wants to be doing. Maybe he has planned to ask you out, chickens out, and now being reminded of his failure is unpleasant, and he feels it is not going to work.
Or maybe he lost interest for some reason. Some one else. Just saying hi without any more finally got old.
If you want to give it a try, I would (a) IGNORE (pretend to ignore at least) this entire scenario -- ALL of it, (b) pick something totally from a new direction to involve him in. Tell him you are going to get some coffee / tea, why doesn't he join you. Or say you want his opinion on something like a topic for a paper, which possible topic sounds boring which one interesting. If he is suffering from not knowing how to reach across the gap and connect with you, this might make him brighten up -- curing the problem. If it is something else, you will find out and you can spend your time more fruitfully somewhere else.
2007-11-08 18:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is avoiding you and be honest with you. Maybe he's found a girl friend and doesn't want to make her jealous or maybe he's too shy or thinks your out of his league. When I was in college there was this girl that was so stunning guys were placing bets to see who could land her. I had a girlfriend I was totally in love with but this girl was all over me and wouldn't give up (fatal attraction kind of stuff. I just kept ignoring her like the plague.
2007-11-08 17:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be shy, but the best thing for you to do is to ask him why he does that....
communication is the best answer to this situation...
it works the same in boyfriend girlfriend relationships as well... Instead of just ending it you can talk about the problems and work things out.
2007-11-08 17:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by rum_rum408 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him?
He might of like you before but you didn't look interested at the time and now he is getting over you. Maybe he is just busy with class. If you are interested you be the one to initiate the convo and show him that your interested.
2007-11-08 17:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by the worr e ore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he likes you as something more but isn't confident enough to try anything, or possibly you've done or said something to upset him, or maybe just something he's been told about you?
Either that or you are making something out of nothing.
2007-11-08 17:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be is shy. He is afraid if you misunderstand. the next time you see him go and say talk only if you are interested. if you are not why do you worry?
2007-11-08 17:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby he liked you but found somone else,
So now when he looks at you he dosnt no what to do.
2007-11-08 17:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by evapilot_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somehow u have him know that you want him and he has realised, and for reasons only known to him he is backing off
2007-11-08 17:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, just maybe, you're soo god damn ugly he cant stand looking at your Medusa's like face.
just kidding.
Maybe hes just shy and thats his way.
2007-11-08 17:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Jiraiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋