I can't help myself. Like I befriend girls that have mates just to see if I can steal their boyfriends. I am addicted to doing it. It usually starts off w/ me flirting with their guy while they are preoccupied and then I begin to put doubts in his head about her. I also lie and talk about stuff I do to make me look real good. I also dress sexier and it works everytime. Once I have them of course I don't want them but it makes me feel good at the moment that I've stolen the guy but I do feel guilty sometimes when I really liked the girl.
Anyway, how can I stop this. I just did this to a girlfriend of 9 months. She was so in love and I just wanted to "prove" to her that EVERY man is a loser...cause they are....he did me in the bathroom at her house when she was sleeping.....
2007-11-08 17:14:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to rephrase what jo said....you aren't just a crappy friend...you aren't one....i'm really glad i don't know you.....you will never have anyone who truely loves you if you keep doing what you do.....so get over yourself and realize that u don't need to steal people's guys to be wanted....how bout you pursue one you really like....and who's SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-08 17:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Charishma S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well Crusty, I can see why your named appropriately. Your a real crappy friend and I don't think you really want help because your self esteem needs the boost. You'll probably move up the ladder to married guys and then you'll marry and divorce like a billion times cause you'll never find happiness. Go get help from a professional because I just described your future as an adult.
2007-11-08 17:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well i can refer to you as my ex-hushbands current wife of 14 yr's she stole him, from me just like how you described. i forgave her after they had been married for 8 yr's however this same woman who think's she is a woman has cheated on him for 14 yr's of their marriage. most recently in a small town of less than 1,000 people. ny ex has to go to work and deal with these men calling his wife names, also he had been working 16's a day everyday so he doesn't have to come home to the neighbor's looking at him. my own 18 yr old son is being made of fun at school cause of this. mostly who has paid the price of her adultrery is their own kid's which are 14-13- 10 months old. so you tell me how can i forgive her again for breaking up her own family.
2007-11-08 17:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Valentine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just...STOP. Most people will see what you are doing as a sign that your self esteem is needy in the extreme....NOT that the guys are losers...though you may be choosing them, too. I don't mean to be pointlessly harsh. But you can and must "help yourself". You won't believe how much happier you will be.
2007-11-08 17:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your maneating is gonna get you in big trouble, dont you think about STDs, pregnancy and stuff like that? one of these days you'll miss with the wrong girl and pay for your actions. if you wanna stop find your own bf.
2007-11-08 17:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by jay K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
face it...you are not a nice person.
Stop it...its evil to play with people's affections
2007-11-08 17:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by A A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry i can't give you advice, but play safely. cos i myself think it's an exciting game.
2007-11-08 17:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
whoa..... u are one flirty muchacha!
2007-11-08 17:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋