Scenario: Me and my bestfriend hav been friends since grade 6. Were now in grade 11. Lately shes been a bi-tch frankly. She "couldn't find me" at fireworks, she "thought it would be awkward" if I came to a Halloween party. I dont understand. She used to love me and she always wanted me to hang out with her. We go to different schools but somehow things arent working. Shes kind of a superficial person but I thought that by grade 11 the whole popularity thing was supposed to be dying down. Is she worth keeping? Or should she go in the bin?
2007-11-08 15:34:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Throw her away. Don't let her treat you like that I'm sure you've got a whole lot of other friends to be actual friends with.
By the way why was this in hair?
2007-11-08 15:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by Wendie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Sounds like for some reason she is not into this anymore, you mention that she is a bit superficial- why hand on to a friendship when you are the only one making an effort? Believe me, there will be many more people in your life that you can actually call a best friend.
2007-11-08 23:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this ones hits close to home because I just lost a friend 2 night as a matter of fact..she doesn't want to be my friend anymore because and this is weird because it really happened on Halloween of all the evilest nights...we went to this out door concert...on south street..she acted like she wasn't having Good time and just stood there looking at the band not dancing or smiling or anything..yet after-wards we went to visits some of her friends at a bar..and she all of a sudden changed..she was laughing and having fun..I got really upset and left..because she was being two faced around me shes in agony yet with her other Friends ahh lets break out the champagne..so after I left I sent her an email about it she said she didn't want to be friends with me anymore..and she acts stuck up and with an attitude about it..so I said well if that's how you feel that's how you feel so whatever..her attitude has started changing for the worse lately and shes all ways tried to tell me what top do how to feel etc..so who needs her..life goes on is how I feel..life should go on for you too..just let it go on..if shes a good friend shell understand if not she never was..good luck to you either way..
2007-11-08 23:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by skygodess003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is part of life - people grow up and grow apart - especially since you're going to different schools. If look back and realize the friendship is only hanging on because you're always the only one who's making the effort to keep it going, then it's time to move on - looks like she already has.
2007-11-08 23:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Flusterated 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate people like that. Since your friendship goes back so far though, I believe you should ask her straight out,
"What's gotten in to you anymore? I still love ya as a friend, but I'm not seeing where you care about our life-long friendship much anymore. What gives?"
And wait for an adult answer. If she fails to give you what you need from that point, So-Long! Life is to short to waste it on someone who simply doesn't care. Take care and I hope this helps.
2007-11-08 23:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change and grow apart, with you being in different schools it will make it hard to stay close. The popuarity thing is always there, even at your 10 year reunion :). I'd still be friends, but don't count on it being like it used to, meet new people and you will find closer friendship as she seems to be doing.
2007-11-08 23:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by smile_likeda_sunrise 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think as a junior in high school you would realize that you don't need friends like her. Keep the ones who keep you happy, not the ones you've known longest. In a couple years when you go away, it's the people who are still around then who count, not the ones who gave you hell in high school and won't talk to you again after! :)
2007-11-08 23:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by yeah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her in the bin. If she's like this at grade 11, she'll be like this for life. You'll run into her in ten years and thank yourself a million times for dumping her.
2007-11-08 23:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep her. relationships with friends are long term investments. They go up and down but when your 50 and have known each other forever the bad times are forgotten and almost no one on the planet will ever remember who you were except that friend. you only get one chance to keep a Friend forever. Forgive, be kind and remember them, IT'S WORTH IT!.
2007-11-08 23:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by frijolero 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest i only hang out with one person from high school. im in grad school now. if they are doing bad things to you its not worth it. try to talk to her and see how much your friendship measn to her. but in all honestly in a few years you probably wont even know her name. keep only the ones that mean something to, and you mean something to them around.
2007-11-08 23:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by hallie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋