hey my name is deen I am 20 yearsold ,yeah I have created a few enimeies with being myself and i might of hurt a couple of people along the way, i know some people wish harm on me I am not the same person i uesd to be but they still talk bad about whisper bad things about me some even want to fight me
2007-11-08 15:02:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Either join the military to run away from these 'many men' or stop worrying about them and move on with your life.
If you really messed them over and you have actually changed, you might try apologizing.
2007-11-08 15:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Peace and blessings be upon you
20 years old is very nice and beautiful , you say you created enemy so , you admit you was wrong and you are sorry so that the God forgave you ,still asking these people to forgive you and be friends.
Ask them to forgive you and open a new page, if you can't or they refuse ,you can open the page alone if you will deal with them , do that in more respect and love and offer the help always.
Take care of your self as treating bad with people will harm you more than harming them , be good with your family ,parents ,brothers ,sisters ,friends ,also any person you don't know him.
when you offer the good , you receive the good and in the time of difficulty ,you will find good people beside you.
2007-11-08 23:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by rona 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing good things for others to see. It shouldn't be long until these things start to take precedence over your past. Eventually, people will start saying things like "Can you believe that he USED to.....?" It's never too late to start doing acts of unselfishness. These people who wish you harm may never forgive you, but if you apologize for your past actions in all sincerity, and cease such negative actions, chances are they will cease wishing harm upon you. Any apology is better than none at all if it is in earnest. And as suggested by another contributor, it would probably help to have someone stand by while you confess your wrong to these people. Even if there is nothing you can do to make it better for them, it's still better to let them know you have a conscience that bothers you for the wrong you did.
Good luck, peace and God Bless
2007-11-08 23:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rollover Mikey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deen,
I had the same problem 10 years ago when I decided to leave my so called family at the time gangbanger and sinners. When I left I looked over my shoulder until I found Jesus, Since that day I pray for them and I refuse to walk in fear anymore. If it comes to that time when you must face them start to pray for them so that they might see the love you found in Jesus and that might stop them from hurting you and talking about you.
2007-11-08 23:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by I want to know 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take someone you trust, and go to these enemies, and tell them that you are sorry you hurt them, and that you are not the same person you used to be.
By being such a stand-up person, you will at least gain the respect of the enemy and possibly they will turn away from their desire to harm you.
And if that doesn't work, just watch out for yourself at all times!
2007-11-08 23:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it has something to do with the way you spell.
2007-11-08 23:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Averell A 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you enroll in a martial arts class .you don't have pinnocio ears do you?
2007-11-08 23:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋