so i like this guy and we are pretty good but every so often he puts in something flirty (through texting). yesterday i was texting him and i said something (i dont remember what) but he was like i hate you. so i was like oh you know you still love me. hahha and he was like well yeah of course i still love you.. do you think he means anything by it. i can tell he at least used to like me but idk anymore. what do you think.. just friend love? or more?
2007-11-08 13:22:36 · 25 answers · asked by tory 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is telling you that he is in 'like' with you
2007-11-08 13:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by ZackAttack1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea its really hard to tell from that. If you want to get more involved ask him if he wants him to hang out, like out side of school. Talk to him on the phone rather then texting him. That way you can hear his tone. Its alot easier to tell that way if he's joking around or meaning something different. Even if it's just friend love now, if you are getting a good vibe off of it, it could be more. You just got to take it there.
2007-11-08 13:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rissa Beanz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he said is a "heat of the moment kind of remark" that means nothing like what you think or want to believe.He reacted to something you text ed him, you responded though you don't know what you said, and he then said and you said..You get the point.Anyway, he may still like you as a good friend but I don;t think as a girlfriend.But then stranger things have been known to happen.
2007-11-08 13:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohmygohd. i just went thru almost the same thing. this guy and me were like flirting constantly and i knew he liked me and i thot he knew i liked him. and i was just waiting for him to make a move then it all got akward and he just wouldnt tlk to me and i had no idea why.............and it turned out some1 told him some stupid *** rumor and he thot i was a ***** like all of a sudden, which sucked ALOT. but enough bout me, thats hard. but i think that he was just kididng, i think its more than friend love, by ALOT. he still has feelings TRUST ME. i think he was trying to fool around and be funny, but it wasnt that funny, sometimes guys do that, its stupid. but wtv. he still likes u, but how long ago was this? if it was like a week or something u neeeed to hold on to him and make sure that u dont let him go, do something that will COMPLETLY make him fall for u if he stops tlking to u. im pretty sure that he still likes u,no worries, just keep doing wat ur doing and ull be fine. trust me. :)
2007-11-08 13:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is a no-brainer... When he texted you:"I hate you...." what he really means is "I hate you for not loving me more." That's why when you text him back:"Oh, u know u still love me...." He replied:"Yeah, of course.."
So, My opinion is it's more than friend love... you are good, for you have kept the banter going.. just keep it up. You could push it up a notch by this telling him:"Since u still love me, why didn't u asked me out for a date?"
Bet he'd jump onto the opportunity and ask you out. It's good for filtering him out if he's only having friend love for you (Which I doubt).
Good luck.
2007-11-08 13:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by flygoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its basically ace at the same time as a lady takes the lead and pins you hostile to the wall and starts kissing once you walk into the room haha + yeh at the same time as shes kissing you and she or he has your thigh inbetween her legs starts shifting up and down..
2016-10-23 21:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is pretty in to you but he is just to afraid or immature to admit it tell him you know that he likes you, but in a joking way that way if he says no he doesn't you don't lose your friendship
2007-11-08 13:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by ambee39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him don't be afraid! Tell him how you feel. If you are close friends get closer before the chance is gone!!
2007-11-08 13:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by a simple guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he said "I HATE YOU" because he loves you so much and he feels like that because he knows you got him hooked.
2007-11-08 13:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing with you so don't let hi get to you if he keeps it up tell him you don't like it
2007-11-08 13:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by meara_clare@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly just go with it for awhile flirt back a bit and see where it takes you, maybe he'll realize you like him and then even if he didn't really mean it that way you may just change his mind
2007-11-08 13:28:24 · answer #11 · answered by Justin E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋