I have a boyfriend but I found a guy I like better, wha do I do to my current boyfriend?

Question

I dont know how to dump him, and the new guy I like likes me, what do I do?

Answer 1

"Don't leave the one you love for the one you like. Because the one you like will leave you for the one they love."

Answer 2

You need to find a way to tactfully tell him that you want to end the relationship. It will probably be painful for both of you, but that's normal and will pass. The pain you will feel just means you care about other people's feelings which is good. Telling him now even though it may hurt him is far better than cheating on him, or staying with him when you have feelings for another guy.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Go with your heart. You can't help who you like or love. And sometimes people fall outta love with someone. It's just time to move on. Tell you now boyfriend that you just don't feel the same way anymore and you two are better off as friends. It's not your fault and you should not feel bad about it at all.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

Don't feel bad, your feelings change and you aren't married to the guy. Just be honest with him because he (and anyone) deserves it. You don't have to mention the new guy but you can if you want. Just say, "I've had a great time with you and I really like this (fill in the blank) about you, however, I just don't have that spart anymore and it's time for me to move on. I just wanted to let you know so I don't string you along, I hope you have a nice future." Do to him what you would want him (or any guy) to do to you if they were in this situation. Good luck.

Answer 5

Just tell him the truth,
that you are a shallow person,
who thinks she's found
"The better Deal".
The sooner you cut your current bf loose,
the sooner he can find a quality lady who will
appreciate him instead of dumping him
for no good reason.
You will be doing your bf a favor by letting him go.

Answer 6

Have you been going out for a while? As in, six months or longer?
You may have not yet connected entirely with your beau or tapped into his complexities. Just wait for a while. And take the relationship seriously. Realize that it's really not just something that will likely be ending soon. It's a relationship.
Just be careful.

Answer 7

First of all, don't act on your crush YET. I mean, even when you dump your current boyfriend... you're gonna really cheapen your relationship with him if you move on straight away. If this other guy really does like you, he won't mind waiting.

And just tell your boyfriend that you just don't feel as strongly about him as you used to.

Answer 8

Do the right thing and tell your current boyfriend the truth. It's better for him to hurt for a little while than to be cheated on.

Answer 9

Tell your current boyfriend how it is. But first check with the other dude and see if he likes you & wants to be with you. Then when you got that handle with..calmly breakup with your current boyfriend and start going with the New dude you like better..

Answer 10

you have to ask yourself if your happy with your current boyfriend or if you'll be happier with this guy that like you? that's what you need to ask yourself. and if you are trying to dump him, tell him you guys could be friends and the boyfriend/ girlfriend thing isn't working out.

Answer 11

gurl, we have the same problem.. but now i'm happy.. i dump my boyfriend but i did not get into a relationship to the new guy that i like immedaitely.. i was very confused what to do and whom to choose but in the end i choose the new guy that i like.. it's really natural to find someone you like who is more better.. gurl, make the ryt decision!!!