well there this boy I like but he keep play games when I ask him do he like me.It's just a yes or no question.I just need to know But I don't want to seem like I keep asking him.what should I do?
2007-11-08 11:57:49 · 33 answers · asked by shorte22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some boys play games for the same reason some girls play games - they are new at this and they don't know how to proceed. Should they be honest or does that make them seem too eager, etc. They try to act one way and see if it works. If it doesn't they try something else - if it does they might try it again. It's all just learning.
Now for you, my dear - you need to decide how you want to play this hand. Do you want to play back or do you want clear cut answers right now? There are a lot of factors that will influence that decision - is he at school? in your class? friends with your friends? etc.
To my mind, you can either forget about him - if he does like you, nothing will attract his attention more than the worry that you are now not interested in him - or you can lay it on the line with him and say "i like you, I'd like to get to know you better - what do you think?" and see what happens. If it works, you might try it again.
Peace!
2007-11-08 12:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times guys will do stuff like that just because they don't know what else to do. There could be many different reasons behind what seems to you as "games." You should try other questions other than just yes or no ones and try to feel him and more. After you have talked to him for awhile about it then it might be a better time to directly ask him
2007-11-08 12:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by not sure pls help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My love, you must be under the age of 18 for sure or you would not be asking this question! First of all, it's not that boys play games pur se, they are inmature and that's what this is called. INMATURITY!!!! ... As far as you go, and what you should be doing in your life, is focusing on yourself and education and not going around asking young BOYS do they like you are not! Unfortunately, you have to grow up also because if you were mature, then you would know not to ask! Women should have an attraction for a guy themselves and with the mutual attraction between the both of you, then you would know that you like this guy, and this guy likes you! You should not have to come to Yahoo! Answers and ask us something that you should know and feel yourself! But honestly, you need to forget about this young boy, and get your education first! ... Messing around with an inmature boy is not going to do anything but make you pregnant so why bother? It's ridiculous time spent to do nothing but ruin your life early! ... Think about those books and graduating and forget this INMATURE BOY!!!
Much Love
Peace & Happiness
2007-11-08 12:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason I can think of is that he could either be a real jerk and likes to play games to get you mad. Or .. he's afraid to tell you. And i think you should just tell him, that you want a straight answer and maybe start playing games with him and be like. Ya ; i'm not talking to you anymore. Or .. something like that.
2007-11-08 12:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Febrezie~! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me, you should turn off the game while you're asking him something. Acts serious, and only ask him once. So you guys are like bf and gf?? if you guys are not that's a different story. if you keep asking him if he like you or not, he might get annoyed and think you're weird and yea..... Just let things move slowly : )
2007-11-08 12:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what im a boy and i play games. well the mans brain is very distacted when occupied. like un occupie him like for instance.hes playing games.and you want to know if he likes you.but he should be reminded.THERE IS A GIRL WANTING TO ASK YOU A FREAKIN QUESTION!!! so just gently take the controller out of his hands and he will finally notice you.when he does you feel free to ask him.if he says. of course i do.. 90% chance you will go on a date. but 10% he is just saying that. well good luck!
2007-11-08 12:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if my answer going to piss you . I am having your same trouble too. But it is a girl i Love most . Even she say love me but it is all saying only. He still flirt with a married guy too.
So I think this is very not too personal question for this modern time now.
So listen to your heart if you love someone either dont give up or
let them go.
2007-11-08 12:03:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy. You should just stop talking to him period. That will let him know that what he is missing. Guys love the thrill of a chase. the more you let him know you like him, it is less likley he is going to tell you how he feels
2007-11-08 12:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by evaneb44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely stop asking him if he likes you. If you call him, he answers, you hang out frequently, then he likes you. If he ignores your calls, you rarely see him, etc. He probably doesn't like you. It's an annoying question and it makes you seem needy. Don't be the needy girl. Be the cool girl. Guys definitely don't like needy.
2007-11-08 12:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by nikkim79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just go up to him and say do u like me or not and if that doesn't work then you should just go right up to him, get his attention, and give him a big KISS! LOL but it works. You could also wear something really sexy and it makes you look really hot or pretty. That will get his attention
2007-11-08 12:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Maddieeliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋