Okay so my bestfriend has a bf which honestly makes me feel sad about it.
It feels like im gonna be single for the rest of the school year. I havent had a bf for 5 months already. but it was okay for me until my bestfriend had a bf. It used to be the other way around i got a bf, she didnt. but now it all changed. well im not saying that she should not have a bf. its juz that im getting jealous.
one more thing, im the one who helped her get the guy(her bf). but now, im starting to like her bf...he's even in my class which makes me to fall for him more. It seems like im getting jealous when they hug and all that lovey-dovey stuff. well, im trying to loose my feelings for him already.
but the main problem is, i wanna have a boyfriend. if you guys are saying that its okay to be single well. no offence. for me it isnt okay. i wanna have a bf already.
so how can i make a guy fall for me ?
2007-11-08 11:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"It feels like im gonna be single for the rest of the school year."
Sweetie, some people never find ANYONE in their entire lives, let alone high school period! Calm down, because you sound quite desperate. And do NOT flirt with her boyfriend. Imagine if your friend did that to YOU. Plus what goes around comes around. Just be patient, seriously!
2007-11-08 11:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you're acting, you're probably turning guys off. You're acting desperate and you act like you're a nobody unless you have a bf. Trust me, I know it can be depressing when everyone around you has a bf (or husbands in my case), but portraying that can have the opposite effect...making you seem even more desperate. Your self esteem is being defined by having a bf or not. Lack of self esteem and jealousy is a big turn off.
This won't make you feel any better right now, but as someone much older than you, I can tell you that your friend will not marry this guy...or the next....or even the next. Yea, she has someone to kiss and hug...big deal. Yea, I know that it's nice to have someone, but you have to like yourself first.
2007-11-08 11:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was going through the same thing about a year ago! Online chatting helps...that's how i got mine. Just somebody local that you like or seemed to catch your eye. No long distance relationships!! They never seem to work unless they're within a 15 minute range!!
2007-11-08 11:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by **ArMaNi** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only get a bf too if your best friend encourages you to or makes fun of you but if she doesnt care than you dont have to
2007-11-08 11:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, focus on studying; there will be plenty of time for dat later
2007-11-08 11:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by L Cameezy... Simply 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear slutty clothes and act deperate.
2007-11-08 11:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋