shes not shallow or anythin but she just flat out doesnt like me for some reason. maybe its because i just moved here a few years ago, but ive never been mean to her. I've tried being nice and she just looks at me like im from another planet. im starting to lose my mind. i need help, serious help.
well i know im just 12 and so is she but were not kids we both have growth problems. im 6ft 3 and shes 6ft 1 and we arent done growing yet, but anyway i need help!
2007-11-08 11:13:48 · 17 answers · asked by Zanders crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, first off, ask your parents if you'd be allowed to date. Also realize that the VAST majority of girls your age (regardless of height or whatever) won't actually go for the whole "true relationship" thing that all the adults seem to assume we're all talking about when we/you say dating. [No offense, but seriously! It's not like 12 year olds are going to have one-night-stands or something. All the criticisms are kind of ridiculous to me, so just ignore them if they don't have any substance behind them that relates to your situations. Sorry, just a word of wisdom. :D]
That said, if she doesn't like you because you moved there YEARS ago, then she's just being stupid. Someone needs to talk some sense into her, and it might as well be you, I guess.
More likely, from what I've heard, anyway, is that you're just kind of randomly talking to her. That's basically just a stranger coming up to her, albeit a cute and tall one, I'm sure, and trying to start a conversation while looking kind of nervous. Try to ease into the talking thing, and maybe that'll help you to get past the weird looks stage.
After that, I'd say ask her friend, a good, quiet-ish one, if they think she likes you. If there's some hope, leave a note on her desk or talk to her during lunch and tell her how you feel.
Good luck!
2007-11-08 17:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by sheep_are_taking_over 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be good to be that tall. Embrace it and make the best of it. Some girls that are tall are not happy standing out in the crowd so she might just be uncomfortable and puts out bad vibes. Ask yourself why do you like her so much? Give it time and you will either get over her or she'll see how great you are. Just don't obsess over it so much cause you'll drive yourself crazy. I know at this age everything is urgent but trust me you have sooooooooo much more time ahead of you. Try to enjoy the friends you have and be happy with everything right now. In the mean time work on your own attributes, your future girlfriend will love you for it. Besides you'll want to go out with someone who's nuts about you and in time it will happen.You sound like a nice guy who will make any girl proud to be with you just give it a little more time.
2007-11-08 11:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Blurp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is 6ft 1 and only 12? I don't think there's a better partner for her than you.
2007-11-08 11:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by JTB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother her and consider finding one who is more friendly to you. Lots of fish in the sea. Nothing worse than a dude who won't leave a girl alone. Or give it some time, she might just need some time.
2007-11-08 11:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by coolette22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 12 too i know your situation the best thing to to is to write her alittle note saying how you feel but dont hand it to her like that.. maybe when she isnt' looking drop the note on the floor and she will realize a piece of paper on the ground or since i know you might not want to do that just tell one of her friends how your feeling..dont just let one girl rule your life.. move on because if she doesnt accept you then i'll be your girlfriend cause i'll appreciate all that you show her..bye! hope this works-out!!lol..email if you want me instead lol..
2007-11-08 11:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yur 12. dont waste yur time on a girl who honestly will prolly not end up being yru wife. u cant even drive yet. like, idk i dont even get how kids so young think they can "GO OUT" with girls or boys or w/e. if yall want yur parents ta drop u off somewhere ta hang out jus hang out with them. having a girlfriend that young is jus stupid. jus have fun whial yur in middle school. when you get ta highschool thas when you need ta start puttin yur life together. you dont even kno who you are yet so houw are you going to try n get ta kno sumone else without knoing who you are. not ta mention if shes also yur age you cant get ta kno her cuz she doesnt kno who she is yet either. but if she "hates" you which i doubt she does cuz most 12yru olds wouldnt kno hate if hitler came bak ta life n shot them in tha face. then i say jus give up. there are other hoes in tha pimp house.
2007-11-08 11:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by blackandbeautiful812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie what does the height have to do with anything...lol
if she doesn't like you then thatsucks but her loss... there are other 6 foot 1 12 year olds out there...you will find one...lol
2007-11-08 11:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by domiprincesstwins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you kno that she doesnt like you? first i would talk to her and see what she has to say about you. flirt with her and see how she takes it. if she flirts back than theres a chance she likes you. but if your sure she doesnt like you than move on, its not gonna be easy but you'll be better off. like you said your 12 there we'll be plenty of other girls there for you. good luck
2007-11-08 11:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by imlost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zander really is crazy, man your 12 don't be trippin about this. Just go about how you would with any other girl, and if she does really hate you, she'll let you know...
2007-11-08 11:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Azena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh that's great and all that you are tall...but if she doesn't like you for no reason...she really isn't someone you should be obsessing over. She seems like a B---. Forget her, you're still young you will find someone who will actually like you for you.
2007-11-08 11:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋