Well, Sometimes when I'm around my girlfriend, I can be all depressed, I'll start thinking all of these negative thoughts like "She's going to cheat on me" or "She doesnt love me anymore, and she doesnt love me as much as she used to"
Why do I have to think negativley? Sometimes I have really happy thoughts, and other times I have the thoughts I just mentioned. I get really sad sometimes and worried, and I don't know what it is. I can be sad for a couple hours, then be happy the next time I'm with her...
I feel like something is wrong in my brain, I don't know what it is.
I KNOW she won't cheat on me, but yet I still think those dumb thoughts. I'm getting tired of the dumb way I think...could someone give me their opinion and advice please?
By the way, I've talked to her about the way I feel, I'm very open with her, I don't keep it built up inside of me.
Okay, please give me your opinions and advice.
Thanks in advance.
2007-11-08 11:13:41 · 13 answers · asked by Cody 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I was wondering if I had mild depression, or something of that sort?
Could I be Bi Polar?
What do you think...?
2007-11-08 11:17:35 · update #1
Learn to love yourself first. I think you have low self esteem. Build yourself up to feel more secure about #1. Also don't dwell on things you have no control over. I told a friend of mine that years ago when he was having problems. He still talks about the time I told him that and says the words still help him to this day. Also don't use drugs or alcohol this wont help your thinking at all. You will get it together, God bless!
2007-11-08 11:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by big Sco 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you're pretty normal. I don't know if you have been cheated on before. That could be the reason. If not, then it's still seem normal. it can happen to anyone who is happy with someone and it seems to be too perfect and they start to fear that something will happen like being cheated on. Love is to fear that you might loose the person you are with in any way. eventually you should be able to trust the person more and forget about what you are saying. If you notice any symptom like being sad for DAYS, get help!
2007-11-08 11:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by chichi117 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're really concerned see a mental health clinic, most clinics are free. Sounds like you could be bipolar, but you don't mention any manic episodes, you also may have some paranoia, which is a mental disorder, too. There are medications you can take, or therapy, but get good advice from a mental health professional. Good Luck on your search.
2007-11-08 11:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by 520doglover 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't say how old u are. If you are still a young teenager then I would probably say its just lack of confidence on your part. If you are older, you probably need to see a psychiatrist for an evaluation. You could be bi polar.
2007-11-08 11:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by tmahurin22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are insecure - most people have insecurities about something. It's good that you're communicating with your girlfriend. Try not to worry so much and concentrate on the good things in your relationship.
2007-11-08 11:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by MomSezNo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What problem? We all think like that from time to time.
Chances are, your issue is just insecurity. For me, (I'm 26) it's just that I have been cheated on so many times that I've got issues.
2007-11-08 11:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you, you're just paranoid.
It's the same problem many other boyfriends go through. Just try to be more optimistic..don't let the negative crap get to your head.
2007-11-08 11:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Riley 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
insecurity is normal. If you think you are having to much insecurity that tells you is time to find out where that comes from.
you could ask to yourself questions like:
what happen to me in past that makes me think I will be reject all my life?
why do I think that?
what makes me think that will happen?
is good to question ourselves because is the way to find out things we even are not aware of ourselves.
If you need more help just let me know
take care
2007-11-08 11:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by ivone v 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My opinion: you sound insecure in yourself. My advice: believe in yourself and your abilities more.
2007-11-08 12:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the devil is wispering in your ear.cast those thoughts out
2007-11-08 12:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by rl153 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋