you being the one gossipped about, how did you hold your ground, head, and did you say anything if necessary.
My Story: One time there was this girl (street girl) that I worked with and she accused me of leaving 3 used sanitary pads next to the toilet and told everyone about it. I never said a word.
She invited me to her wedding in which she was forced to marry because she got pregnant. She invited me, and I politely declined. She told me all about the wedding. Now, I heard she is divorced. So, dear ones, yes, gossippers get their just rewards, too.
2007-11-08 10:12:58 · 7 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, Waggy don't revel in her misfortune just pointing out that with her toungue and lying, she'll get in trouble in all aspects of life. Just goes to show you in this example.
2007-11-08 10:19:55 · update #1
Yes I do believe what goes around comes around, but I think if you revell too much in other people's misfortunes it is debateable as to how much of a moral high ground you really have.
2007-11-08 10:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by waggy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You handled it fine. If you change your behavior because of their meanness, they are controlling your mind at that point.
I'm amazed at some on of the insane stuff some relatives of mine come up with about me. If they had actual lives, they wouldn't have time to watch the lives of others. Just feel sorry for those sort that amuse themselves this way.
2007-11-08 18:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people love to hear all the gossip that's why they live in places or go places where there's lots of wagging tongues.
Some people need gossip like they need McDonalds.
2007-11-08 18:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you didn't say or do anything. It just proves that you're better than she is. Since it wasn't true anyway, there was no point in letting that upset you. Always remember that when someone is a ***** towards you, killing them with kindness is the best revenge!!!
2007-11-08 18:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's true, and i also believe that if u try to take revange urself then the neture doesnt do its tricks and u get hoocked to the negitavity! so its always best to hold on to ur dignity. but at times truth must be told!
2007-11-08 18:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by sab 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't gossip about me cause I punch them in the face if they do.
2007-11-08 18:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by the_blue_dem0n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way to go...you handled the situation just as you should have!
2007-11-08 18:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋