2007-11-08 09:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
only when youre ready. i have 3 boys which none were planned and i adore all of them and wouldnt change a thing i was ready i just didnt know i was now i want more and my husband says no but having a baby no matter the pain it causes physically and emotionally is a beautiful experience but taking care of a baby requires your fullest attention and love so making sure youre ready really helps.
2007-11-08 09:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by zadinia121 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't say there is actually a set time to have kids. I would say to be married and financially stable. Also, you should have children with someone that you are truly in love with, which will be better for the children in the end. I am an only child and my parents are still married, I am so thankful for this and they are truly in love. It feels good to be 19 years old and still have parents who are together, because these days you do not find that too often. So just make sure that YOU and YOUR HUSBAND are both ready for children. Talk it over with your partner, this should be a decision you two should decide together.
2007-11-08 17:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are financially and emotionally stable and able to support a child.
It happens at different ages for different people.
Basically if you have the finances and you're over the "selfish" period of your life.
I'm 27 and I only became ready a year ago. Baby is due in March.
2007-11-08 22:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in a stable, permanent relationship, financially stable and secure, with someone that wants kids and you are 25-34.
But really, pets are better.
2007-11-09 10:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by DRD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right time to starting having kids just when you are ready
2007-11-08 18:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by ellajoem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you have done everything so you won't have any regrets when you become a parent. For example, I finished college, got married, traveled, enjoyed life with my husband, hung out with friends, worked on my career, and then had kids.
2007-11-08 17:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Precious 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say an ideal age would be around 25 as you are likely to hold a steady job and enjoyed your life to the fullest.
2007-11-12 03:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by lil1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people say "when your ready" the truth is your never gonna be ready. But you can be prepared by being financially stable and reading alot of books. About 27 and above.
2007-11-08 18:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by JOHNNA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are financially stable and have a supportive partner.
2007-11-08 17:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you know that you are ready! ex. your in a steady relationship, you can can provide a good life for the baby:)
2007-11-08 17:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Dacoda's mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋