When my ex broke up with me I pretty much said hurtful things and cried to him for 3 weeks than I gave up. Looking back I feel like such an idiot. Its not like me to do this type of stuff, but I was so in love with him and reacted immaturely. I've gotten my life together since but hes told everyone how I acted and now his friends and even one of mine look at me like I'm crazy. Am I completely psycho? This is definately something I'd love to take back.
2007-11-08 09:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive started dating a new guy since but i think back and im like omg i was so pathetic
2007-11-08 09:24:27 · update #1
thanks guys you made me feel like im not crazy haha
2007-11-08 09:29:47 · update #2
No you're not psycho. sometimes people do weird stuff when they love someone and then they break up. If people look at you crazy let them, you can always find new people to hang out with. There's plenty of people out there! Good luck!
2007-11-08 09:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry... we have ALL been there at one point or another. You don't really "think" and rationalize when you are in love. Its good that you got your life together since then. Your ex might be jealous that you have moved on and thats why he is telling everyone what happened. Just hold your head up high. You will be alright. =)
2007-11-08 09:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunately you cant take it back. Just learn from it and move on hun. This isn't going to be the only time in your life you will wish you can take something back. All you can do is learn and move on from it. People will think what they want when they want. Your not gonna change that just be you it will all work out.
2007-11-08 09:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by awbiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The beauty of life is you only get one shot. Sometimes you get right, and sometimes you mess up. Everyone does it. Don't worry about them. Just hold your head up high and go on with your life. I don't believe for a second that your ex's friends ever lost their mind over something they loved.
2007-11-08 09:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don’t doubt who you are u shouldn’t have to explain yourself to no one tell them you had a moment (more like 3 weeks) because you had some much love for him and he truly hurt you.
2007-11-08 09:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Cherish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has done stupid things for a guy/girl. You may feel that gut wrenching feeling everytime you think about it. Just learn from it.
2007-11-08 09:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off: what is crazy?
whats bonkers to you is normal to others...dig?
every break up has stages....hurt, anger, denial, solitude, triumpherant, so on
so sounds like you went thru a few
but you got a new man, so your cool
hes the one alone missing you now
2007-11-08 09:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has done this especially with first loves. this is just a part in your life that one day you will look back at a laugh! I promise, I have done it, my husband did it, and all of my girls have.
2007-11-08 09:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by jentennisgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we all go through those feelings at some point in our life and some of us learn from it, so don't feel bad. He shouldn't flatter himself by trying to belittle you.
2007-11-08 09:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY EX TOLD EVERYONE WE KNOW THAT SHE COULDN'T GET ME OFF MY A S S , TO DO ANYTHING. WELL NOW LETS SEE WE DID BOTH OCEAN'S IN SIX MOUTHS WENT ELEVEN CONCERTS, AND SAW SEVENTEEN GROUPS, BUT SHE COULDN'T GET ME TO GO ANYWHERE AS SHE TELLS IT!!! NO YOU ARE NOT PSYCHO HE IS , SO WIPE HIM FROM YOUR FEET, LIKE YOU WIPE DOG S H I T FROM YOUR SHOES
2007-11-08 09:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋