if me and this other guy like eachother, but we have dated before , should we go for it again... if so should i wait for him to ask me or just ask him... or shuold i just move on?
2007-11-08 09:15:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the reasons it didn't work the last time. If someone betrayed the other, or you just weren't compatible, then leave it. But sometimes relationships just kind of fade because life gets in the way. . . . if that's what happened and you still like each other, definitely pursue it.
You don't necessarily have to ask him point-blank to go for it again, just suggest the two of you spend some time together, and see what happens.
2007-11-08 09:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If both of you are still into eachother. go for it again. Their is no need to be scared. Unless their was a big reason on why you broke it off. If you fell that he should make the first move and he isn't doing anything then that should give you a hint of how he will be in the future.
2007-11-08 17:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if there wasn't anything serious involved in your breaking up, it's still been some time since then, you should probably move on. He may no longer be interested. In the interim, if he does ask you out, it's up to you if you want to try again.
2007-11-08 17:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stop dating in the first place? If it was just casual, and there wasn't a "break up", there's no reason not to ask him out - go for it!
If it was a "break up", it depends whether the issue that split you has been resolved - if yes, give it another try, if no, its time to move on.
2007-11-08 17:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would revisit the reason you stopped dating in the first place. If it's something that has changed and you both can deal, then go for it! If not, just remember that history ususally repeats itself.
I wouldn't be too forward about it, but just drop certain hints so he will know what's up.
Good Luck!
2007-11-08 17:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lovin' Life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it's best to leave the past behind you, but if you feel there was something unresolved or a new reason to try again, why not...but tread lightly! Be cautious and always remember why it was you broke up in the first place.
2007-11-08 17:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by That is all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever you feel comfortable doing. If you want to wait wait. Make him come to you. If you want to go for it, then go for it. Guys like girls who take control. Just do what you feel like doing. Relax and chill. It will work out hon! âº
2007-11-08 17:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move on it seems like you're trying to see if you can make this relationship work. I feel that maybe you should make the move since you are concerned about what will happen
2007-11-08 17:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes just throw a leg over him
2007-11-08 17:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like him or love him then ask him. Don't wait just go for it!
2007-11-08 17:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋