2007-11-08 09:14:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every time we hang out he ALWAYS has to do something sexual with me. And when i tell him to stop he wont. He doesnt abuse or rape me or anything like that. And he only shows affection in person...he thinks the only way to show affection is by having sexual intercourse. He never calls me and he seems like he only hangs out with me when he has nothing else to do. I am SO confused.
2007-11-08 09:19:58 · update #1
If he doesn't treat you well all the time than you should dump him. It's not going to get better as time goes on it will only get worse.
2007-11-08 09:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Living in BFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with him for one thing. If he's treating you badly, then you should probably get rid of him completely.
And in the future, wait for sex until you've built a strong relationship. That way when you finally do have sex you will know the relationship was built on much more than just sex.
2007-11-08 17:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is. Some people get love and sex confused for some reason. But, that doesn't sound like the case to me. It sounds like he only wants to have sex with you. I would get rid of him. Their are plenty more fish in the sea that will respect you for you and not for what you are giving them.Unless you want it to be that way.
2007-11-08 17:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jody 829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart!! it may hurt but in the long run, you will be thanking yourself. stop having sex with him and tell him how you feel and if he gets mad and start saying he will get it else where, then you know he is not the one for you!! do not lower your standards!! just don't settle!!! be smart!!
i just read the other half of your story...in that case leave him!!! you are so better than that!! he needs to learn how to treat you and you are not a teacher so..he will have to learn else where!!!
2007-11-08 17:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.....
either you be a big girl and ask and get it out the way, or you go with the flow and use him for sex.
think about it... why can they do it to us but we cant do it to them?
i was in that same problem with my bf of 3 yrs..
we broke up and i was the one that initiated a just sex relationship, slowly he's been changing and acting more of a bf then when we were together..
give it time, dont stress over someone not worth it.
good luck
⥠Angie â¥
2007-11-08 17:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared, than you don't need to be in this relationship. Stop giving him sex and get out of it.
2007-11-08 17:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I read this correctly, he only treats you nice when he wants sex...
I think it is time to move on....
2007-11-08 17:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop with the sex and see how long he sticks around.
2007-11-08 17:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that is the case, then leave him.
Why do you think that way? More details would be helpful.
2007-11-08 17:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Uni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex anymore and if sticks around hes not... but if hes gone he was..
2007-11-08 17:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋