2007-11-08 07:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by antonesha b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
no there is nothing wrong with it, girls often go out with older guys and he may only be a month or two older. also he is probably more sensible than a 14/13 year old. i think that you have nothing to worry about.
i am also 15
2007-11-09 09:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Seb Zapata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No -- there is nothing wrong with a 14 year old girl having a 15 year old boyfriend. Why do people think the worse? You just need to set rules.
When my daughter was that age (she is now 19) she had a boyfriend and they basically talked on the phone all the time, would go to the movies together, come over our house and play X-Box, go bowling, etc.
There doesn't have to be any type of intimacy and they both knew it.
If you think your kids won't date until 18 you are definitely wrong. If they want to bad enough they will sneak behind your back.
I was always open enough so that I got to know the boy(s) well, etc.
2007-11-08 07:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Vera C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14(I'm 27 now), I had a boyfriend. My parents would allow him to come over to the house and we would play video games or watch a movie. I have 3 brothers, so we were always supervised. My youngest brother, who was 2 at the time kept the tighest reign on us. He followed us everywhere and would actually sit between us on the couch. He's 15 now and my little boy does the same to him and his girlfriend. My parents took the time to get to know his parents as well and trusted me to go to his house occaisionally.
I think it should be fine for a 14 year old to have a boyfriend, but she's too young to date. If you keep your daughter from her boyfriend, that will make him more appealing and make her more likely to do things you don't want her to do with him.
2007-11-08 08:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by .. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no reason to keep them apart... closely monitored, yes... but don't try to break them up.
My daughter has had boyfriends since she was 13. They held hands and talked on the phone but that is about it. She did have one boyfriend who we felt was a little too agressive (a lot of kissing) but she is a smart girl and we trust her. We insist that their dates always be in monitored situations or in public. Having BFs over while we aren't home isn't allowed.
She is 15 now and is a very 'together' girl. Her current BF is a great kid.
2007-11-08 08:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Wundt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some more details here... what's wrong with the boyfriend? The answer is no, because (assuming he's not a drug addict or gets her into trouble) kids that age will find a way to "be together" Think- I love him and you can't stop me from loving him.... True it's probably puppy love but all the same your daughter feels it just as strongly... Set boundaries but not extremes. With rules she can live by she will be less likely to just go behind your back.
2007-11-08 07:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by manderstwin1 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't necessarily keep her from him, just make sure that wherever they go they have parental supervision. She should be able to hang out with him as long as you are atound. Also, meet his mom. Get to know her and maybe she will also watch over them.
2007-11-08 07:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by missalexrafqa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion 13, 14, 15 is too young to be having boyfriend/girlfriends. what is the need for them? so yes, the mother should.
and after looking at you previous questions i understand that you are the 14 yo/ am i correct?
and to Vera C., your kids maybe....
2007-11-08 07:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋