2007-11-08 07:17:20 · 10 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met some very nice people that were not pretty people, so no looks are secondary.
2007-11-08 08:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of in a situation like that right now actually. I've liked this guy for years, he was actually my high school crush and I thought we would have more in common, because we are the same sign and have alot of the same interests and goals in life, but whenever I would attempt to talk to him on a romantic level, he would lie to me and make up a bunch of excuses, to avoid having to say "I'm just not interested or attracted to you like that".
Instead, he would make himself look like an *** by saying things that he really didn't feel, such as: "Oh, I can only mess with "skeezers" in other words a dumb girl, with no intelligence, that's easy to pull. I never understood him at all. Most guys get really big headed when a girl has the courage to walk up and talk to them, because it's something that rarely happens. They dream about sh!t like that. Usually it's the other way around. So eventhough they aren't interested in you, they still like to keep you around as their little ego boost puppy, while they actually prefer going out with the "America's Next Airhead" type girls that they can manipulate and take advantage of.
People have a right to their preference and what they like, without having to be criticized or called shallow. If I say, I like nerds, or I like fat guys, then it's not a problem. Yet, if a person says they only date models or skinny people, that makes them shallow, so it's actually that person's own shallowness that is the problem, if you think about it. To an extent everyone cares about looks, eye candy is usually the first attraction, then you get to know who they are as a person. Just basing your decision on looks alone though, is shallow.
-Knowledge24
2007-11-08 15:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. if we're already friends then i'll go ahead. if he's a stranger and he's one of those guys that has absolutely NOTHING attractive about him...like below average..i will simply say id rather be friends. i definitely don't want a pretty-boy (too much drama) and i don't want someone who looks repulsive. im not shallow...but i have a limit. he must look at least average.
2007-11-08 15:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I like to get to know them on a level that would reveal their personality to me...because I want someone that I can have a great time with and that I can relate with when we go out on dates....
2007-11-08 15:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by durtyboyz2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No basing someone on there looks is shallow
2007-11-08 15:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to think so but i tell you what... the people that are interested in you will treat you great...Cute men/females usually know they look cute and act like butt holes..not ALL of them but a lot of them do... follow your heart it usually will tell you which way to go
2007-11-08 15:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope im not shallow like that
2007-11-08 15:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by [♥]KaCiE LyNn[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but yes if I don't like them back.
2007-11-08 15:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont judge by looks.
2007-11-08 15:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-11-08 16:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by tony s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋