Just wondering. Is it the other persons business if you don't have anything to affect the relationship now, such as, STD's, is it your partners RIGHT to know how many people you have slept with or is it the past. P.S. I'm not having this problem in my life, just curious!
2007-11-08 07:14:57 · 20 answers · asked by jade4e83 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the ideal world, people would meet, have a frank discussion about their sexual past with no lies of omission and full disclosure. Then the happy couple would trot merrily down the road the the doctor's office for a full sexual examination and tests for all the major STDs.
They would then pick up the most appropriate forms of birth control and begin their sexual relationship.
But the reality is that is not the way things work out. Most girls will under play how many people they have slept with, because of the social taboo associated with having too much sex as a woman. Most men will underplay the number so that they do not appear like 'players' to the girl the are currently trying to sleep with.
2007-11-08 07:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm 49yrs previous married 21yrs now divorced a million.5yrs & have purely had a finished of 8 sexual companions. i'm sorry that maximum adult males ought to guage you a ho, 26 sexual companions at 17yrs of age is i'm sorry way too many. noticeably thinking hazards of pregnancies, sexually transmitted ailments, HIV, Aids, and so on. Get your self to the docs for an total verify up & attempting out, birth control, condoms. you want counseling to locate why at this style of gentle age you're behaving so irresponsibly inclusive of your body & your existence. No do no longer say what number of human beings you've been with as you'd be at present dumped. good success, take care, & ought to God bless.
2016-10-23 21:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jade:
No, NO, don't ever, NEVER~
volunteer such information.
(with std's ruled out, like U stated)
It serves NO Positive Purpose!
It just TEARS Relationships apart.
2007-11-08 07:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't need to reveal the number of sexual partners you had in your lifetime. It is YOUR business. However, if you do have STD, your partner has the right to know about that.
2007-11-08 07:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by diva9047 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It only takes 1 'wrong' person to get a STD, the number is irrelevant. Before atarting a serious relationship I recommend getting tested.
2007-11-08 07:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by strwbrrytop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should be open about it now there are so many stds and aids is out there. ppl need to be more open. u can get hpv even if u use condoms and if u have alot of partners its more likely u can have it. tell him dont be ashamed of ur number. if it makes u feel better my number is 4 guys. see i said my number now tell him your number. (im 22)
2007-11-08 07:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by veg4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am always honest if they ask but I am not going to vounteer the information because why in the world would that want to know and what number would they want to hear...thats were the problem comes in some people dont like numbers that are to low or to high
2007-11-08 07:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by durtyboyz2005 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be relevant.. Wanting to know if you have an STD is COMPLETELY relevant.. You could have slept with 100 guys and gotten none, or you could have slept with 1 and gotten one.. The past shouldn't matter..
2007-11-08 07:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle_Fisty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no I have a strict policy never talk about the past like that. I don't want to know how many partners my love has been with. ill
2007-11-08 07:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Hey There 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary to do so. It is the past, and we all have one. However, if you have STDs, you must reveal that your partner prior to any physical contact.
2007-11-08 07:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by EDD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋