My boyfriends birthday is coming up. He always had this fantasy of me in a Catholic girls school uniform. I am Catholic and I used to go to a Catholic school so I have a uniform but it's so small now (it was from middle school) but I can still fit into it as I am petite. But, I'm really nervous about doing this... what do you do when you're trying to make someones fantasy reality? Clearly I don't have that much experience but can someone help?
2007-11-08 05:13:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes girl give it to him. If that is his biggest fantasy you should do it. Just dress up in the outfit and wait for him to come home, you should wait in the bedroom with the lights on dim or light some candles. You may could even do some role play like calling him Mr. ? . And ask him what the lesson for the day is. Or maybe tell him that you have been bad and need a paddling. Go from there. If it makes him happy, drop the shyness he already thinks you're great or else he would not be with you.
2007-11-09 02:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that YOU ALSO will enjoy role-playing, then YES ABSOLUTELY you should do this. It is fun to add to romance the FUN of just playing around and joking and being creative.
If you cannot get into the swing of things enough to have fun playing a part, then maybe it is not for you. But remember you are doing it FOR HIM, not for you, so try to meet him half-way and do it even if you have to push yourself. But, ultimately, the secret to doing this right is just to HAVE FUN WITH IT. Pretend you are in a school play, playing a part.
Just pretend you are a school girl again, and let him seduce you. When he was young, he lusted after school girls, and did not know how to always succeed.
Part of the fun is that THIS TIME he gets the girl! He knows how, and he is now re-living past memories where he wanted but could not have, now he wants and CAN have what he wants.
So, you let him win YOU over. You just act like a school girl. Let him come after you. You can resist a little, like you did in school, and then let him finally seduce you.
NOTE: He wants YOU. He just wants to see different aspects OF YOU. If he didn't want you, he would not be asking YOU to dress up.... he would be off in a school yard somewhere. HE WANTS A GROWN UP, ADULT WOMAN. Guys who have a problem are NOT attracted to adult women. He just wants to have some FUN with it, and maybe recapture the feeling of HIM being young and looking at females for the first time and thinking "WOW!"
When guys are young, they see beautiful females -- THEIR OWN AGE at the time (in the memories that they now have, the SAME age as them) -- and see beautiful things THEY CAN'T HAVE. So it is a big deal in their feelings and in their memories.
So to transfer that feeling of wanting some hot girl and now being able to HAVE what he wants, is part of the reason for the fantasy.
ALSO in the school context everyone was fancy free, with no responsibilities (really), having fun, etc. So a schoolgirl is someone who is fun and fun-loving and light-hearted... not someone who has to go to work every day, cleans the kitchen, balance the checkbook, get the car fixed, etc.
So thinking of you as a schoolgirl is also a way of thinking of you in a FUN context, not the woman (just like him the man) who has to get up and go to work every day. It puts everything in the context of when you were young and free and had no responsibility.
2007-11-08 13:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, you have to take on a different persona, be very coy, very innocent but you have to enjoy it too!! when you see him naked you say "Oh my! what on earth should i do with that???" etc. the catholic school girl fantasy is all about him being much more experienced than you are and letting him tell you what to do.
HOWEVER!!!
NEVER EVER LET A MAN DO ANYTHING OR ASK YOU TO DO ANYTHING THAT YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH!!! IF YOU DONT WANT TO DO IT SAY NO!!! lots of couples who have role play sex have a "key word" that means no, because he may say that he thought you were acting so it has to be a word that wouldnt usually come up, i find "teapot" is a good one.
Feel free to have fun in this way but remember you are meant to enjoy it too!!!
2007-11-08 13:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by dom c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big of a deal. Just put the uniform on....dance/walk around a bit. Hop on top of him and slowly take your clothes off. You won't be in the uniform for too long sweetie. If you want to make him happy on his birthday just do it and get it over with.
2007-11-08 13:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by carqueen66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that would be an incredible memorable birthday present for him! Do it if you feel comfortable. In fact, you should try to enjoy it too and roleplay - it can be a lot of fun! Pretend he's the teacher, or the priciple and you need help with your homework ---> SEX ED.
2007-11-08 13:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by mattmurray8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a doable fantasy. Why not? I've heard of a lot weirder fantasy's.
2007-11-08 13:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to roll play, make sure you have on garter belt, white stockings, and no underpants. That should make him very happy.
2007-11-08 13:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should make his fantasies a reality. if he is your boyfriend then you shoould do whatever to satisfy him on his birthday
2007-11-08 13:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by navigator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to wear it for him, and fit it, go ahead. I'm sure he would really appreciate it and do something equally special for your birthday
2007-11-08 13:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems harmless enough.... go ahead make his day!!!!! Don't forget ur birthday is coming up then it's ur turn.
2007-11-08 13:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋