Guys please answer this!I really need your advice about my bf?

Question

Ok so I'm 19 and I've been with this great guy for almost 3years.
My problem is that hes away alot for work and, as I used to work with him I know that there are alot of sexy women around him all the time.

http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/ff106/Sinead1499/MOSSY.jpg
They are constantly all over him because hes gorgous and very sexy!
The thing is I'm afraid that he is going to lose interest in me with them around.
I have a very simple plain style but I think i should change it up a bit.Please look at the pics and tell me what you think about this.
I need any tips on how to spice up my looks,keep his attention and make sure he doesen't forget about me while hes away.


He is 23 btw.

http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/ff106/Sinead1499/Photo-0013.jpg

http://i236.photobucket.com/albums/ff106/Sinead1499/Photo-0024.jpg

Answer 1

He is going out with you cos he likes the way you look so why change it?. Enjoy the relationship as it is and I hope it keeps going for you but if it doesn't then its a case of " oh well". If you worry too much it will show and you could end up driving him to do the thing you are most afraid of. Men like a woman who is a little hard to get and a teeny bit devil may care, but if you worry about things you will start to nag him for attention and even accuse him of cheating on you. Try to lighten up and whatever you do be happy and laugh alot and be fun to be with even if you're feeling insecure. Good wishes to you.

Answer 2

Personally, I think you are already a beautiful woman, and if your boyrfriend truly loves you, which after 3 years I am sure he does, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Looks are not improtant to some men, and the fact he's been with you for long is saying something. I have been with my wie for over 4 years. I work a lot of overtime at my job where there are mostly women. I have never cheated and will never cheat on my wife. Remember this phrase, "it's not the quantity of time you spend with your significant other, it's the qulity of time you spend that's important." In other words, it doesn't matter how much time you spend with him, it's what you do with that time that's important. Cherish the amount of time you spend with him, instead of dwelling on those worries. If you show him the depth of your love, he'll never want to leave because he knows that he'll never be able to find anyone else like you.

Answer 3

Looks are everything.
I truly believe that sexy is an attitude (confidence) not an outward appearance. Of course, being all dolled does it's part. But you can be told your sexy after cleaning the house all day in your grubbiest sweats.

It sounds like you are too insecure in this relationship. You need to think about why you feel that way? Build up your confidence by experiencing new places and things. You'll have new insights and interesting things to talk about.
You'll notice many people taking interest in you.
And BTW you are pretty. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 4

Ok. Look sweetie. You have cuteness. Lots of cuteness. You would cause my head to turn in your direction.

Wear your hair down. That's part of what gives you cuteness.

Let you hair grow longer. We like long hair. Half way down your back or more is really nice. Some of us (me), likes how it feels on our backs when it is still damp from your shower.

Anyway, you've been with him for three years. Right? Well, you must be doing something right. Whatever it is, keep doing it.

After a guy gets used to a girls looks and begins to know her mind, he pays much less attention to what he sees and a lot more to her character.

Just relax. Look nice and smell good and smile a lot and be cheerful around him. Keep his ego boosted up because we like that a lot. And don't complain around him. That just drags us down.

If he's going to go mess around on you, then it's best that it happen sooner rather than later so that you can get on with your life earlier. And it will be better to know how he deals with this kind of temptation. It will make him a stronger person by learning how to overcome the pressure of attracton. That is something that will help him later in life in other things.

Keep him interested and keep yourself fit and healthy.

Best Wishes

.

Answer 5

give him an option.either you or them not both and then trust that he will make the right one.then tell him that its all right for him to fool around as long as he comes home with the same thing he left with. I am a truck driver,I have been all over the U.S. and I have had many an opportunity to fool around on my wife but because of my love for her and not wanting to bring home anything I didn't leave with I never touched another woman.If he can't except this than if I were you I would show him the door. At 19 you have plenty of time to find another man and when you do give him the same choice.

Answer 6

you're so pretty!!!, especially with your hair down...

you should relax really -- if he loves you, he loves you! nothing's gonna change that...ever.
not make up, not so called style that's usually used like a front to cover the void inside. i mean all those women around him.
you've been together for 3 years, well don't you think he would tell you something's wrong or that he wants you guys to brake-up? i don't believe he's the cheater type.

also, i will not provide you with ideas to change everything that you stand for; you are who you are! (you can try gold shimmers, all type of make up, curly hair,sexy night gowns... BUT ...don't do it unless you're sure that's the way you want to keep it, stay like that for the rest of your life --that's a long time!!!) you are really pretty, pls don't ruin that..

Answer 7

You're a cute girl. If a guy is going to cheat, he's going to cheat and there isn't much you can do about it. So don't drive yourself crazy thinking about what you can't control. If you want to look a little sexier, try putting on a little makeup, but obviously the dude likes you how your are so don't stress.

Answer 8

If he loses interest in you and goes after them, it will have nothing to do with how you look or how they look.

If that's the case, then let him go.

You kept his attention for almost 3 years. If he wanted to leave you at any time, he could have (and still could). But that's his choice to make; and the best way to let him do that is to be yourself.

Answer 9

looks aren't everything I'm afraid, and you're okay as far as looks go. But if there are a lot of women who you think look better than you, try being kinky in the bedroom, visit him at work and have quickies during lunch hour.

Answer 10

Don't beat yourself up thinking all this stuff. It will just hurt you in the long run.