Is it possible to get rid of the negativity in a person and surround them with positive light?

Question

without the person knowing it?

Answer 1

This should work for mental as well as physical

Spell for healing others

Light a blue candle and visualize the person who needs healing. When the picture is clear in your mind, target the area of disease and color it bright red. Now visualize tiny workers brushing soft green paint over that spot. Hold the picture until the spot is completely painted over. Open your eyes and chant:

I hold you in my heart and wrap you in my love.
My circle of protection descends now from above.
And as I send this energy, all pain shall disappear
And all disease shall dissipate and shrivel up in fear.
The emptiness I now replace with fresh vitality,
so you may thrive upon the Earth in laughter, love and glee.
Bright blessings and good health, my friend, encase you from now on.
I ask that they watch over you and keep you well and strong.

Allow the candle to burn out.

Answer 2

Without them knowing it? No.

Learning to focus on the positive is a personal thing. It's a discipline that must be learned by the individual, not someone else. It's worth learning, too, as it makes you much happier in the long run.


I think a similar question might have a different answer, though. I do believe it is possible to convince an unsuspecting person to be shrouded in pathetic negativity whlie convincing them they're just doing the right thing. You see this in the way a lot of religious people raise their kids. The phenomenon is often called 'Catholic guilt,' even though I see this more in fundamentalist and evangelical circles more than in Catholics.

Answer 3

Depends what you define as light.
If you thinking of the divine light than I suppose you can give a person blessings and bring yourself up to a level and it would be as if you are transmitting to them.

A more earthly way is giving the person experiences by interaction without recognizing them, just doing. read what is going on wrong internally and feed the person's soul in an unconditional love.

Answer 4

I had a cousin that was negative to the point that I would avoid her phone calls. I liked her and felt bad about avoiding her, so I decided to try to help her see the bright side of things.

After my decision, I no longer avoided her calls and I would let her vent about what she (always) needed to vent about and then turned the conversation towards more positive things. If she continued on her negative strain, I would cut the phone call short, but after a while she started to respond to the positive conversation that I was prompting.

After a few months of our positive-negative give and take, our conversations became quite pleasant, and she started to seem generally happier.

You can't really change anyone else, they have to want to change themselves. Saying that, it doesn't hurt to try.

I hope this helps.

Answer 5

The positive or negative persona of a person is within that person and eminates from the soul. Simply surrounding negaitvity will not change it but planting the seed of positivity within that negativity and letting it grow from within will eliminate the negativity.

Answer 6

Yes it can be done. But not completely they must do their own inner "work" too. Surrounding a person with positive light is a very good way to help someone in need or sick.

Answer 7

You can tell them positive things. Like when they complain about something like, for example:
Their dog pooped on their clothes. You can say that sux, but at least they didn't tear them up..... Just kinda bring in a lil sunshine when something goes wrong. Eventually u may find that they will adopt your way of thinking. But it really has to do w/ the person. I use to be really negative (still am a lil) but my b/f would always show me the bright side and now I find myself thinking that way myself.
Good luck!!

Answer 8

I would say forward them positive emails. You can share these with other people to make it seem like you are not targeting them specifically. My coworker sends out "Daily Inspirations" with words of encouragement and how to rid our lives of negativity. Always show positive behavior towards them. This will make them feel better and lighten up. Sometimes people have to learn on their own. When they see there aren't good things that happen in their lives, they will understand the power of positive behavior more. For example, my mother wanted to apply for a job because she desperately needed one and her friend wanted my mom to send in her resume. My mother told me she didn't want to send in her friend's resume because she needed the job more than her friend, and she was pretty nasty about it. I made her send it in. Keep in mind my mother was very qualified for this position. After she waited almost a week to forward her friend's resume. Her friend was invited for an interview and not her! Talk about Karma!

Answer 9

Yes, it certainly is. The way to do it is to stop being negative yourself. It is only possible to see another person is negative if we are negative ourselves. If we remove all traces of negativity from ourself, it will be impossible to perceive it in others and they can have no effect on us.

I would highly recommend the book "Chofetz Chiam, A Daily Companion." It will help you learn how negativity develops among people.

If YOU study the Torah with the intent of learning how G-d expects us to behave and then go out and do it, you will find those around you will change, also.

If they don't change, at least your reaction to them will change.

Answer 10

I don't know how that can happen, but personally, my way of getting rid of the person's negativity is to ignore him/her completely and walk away.