I've been living with my on again off again boyfriend for about a year and half. Well, we just haven't been getting along lately at all and it's been really hard to live together. Anyways, he always throws up in my face "I was the one who told you we shouldn't have gotten together, we should've remained friends/roomates instead of getting involved" Ok, so last night I went to my girlfriends house and we drank a bit. I called him around 2 to let him know I wasn't going to drive and I was just going to crash at my girlfriends place. "he says, your full of **** you whore...skank...tell him I said you can stay there" Now does that sound like someone who just wants to be roomates!? I didn't do anything wrong, and he just treats me like total crap. I called him today and he answers the phone "what" like I was bothering him. I just don't know what to do. Any advice?
2007-11-08 03:02:47 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Amber 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, I tried talking to him about this last night and he just said "It's impossible to talk to you, you're an idiot" I just cried my eyes out for about an hour because I don't understand how someone who is suppose to be a friend/boyfriend can be so hateful.
2007-11-08 03:04:50 · update #1
And no, I do not expect people to feel sorry for me, Blessed. I'm not looking for pity and I don't feel like a victim. I just put my heart into someone who is a jerk and I know it's my fault I've stayed this long. It's just hard for me to walk away because I have cared so much about him. I just kept trying and trying to do things to make him see I was a good girl...but he always found things that were wrong with me and would not appreciate the things I was doing.
2007-11-08 03:36:49 · update #2
first of all you cant put yourself at his level...you cant be with someone who tells you stuff like that...there's alot of guys out there n way better...you need to leave him n forget he even exists he's just being an *** cuase he knows you care about him but you shouldnt let no guy put you down....thats just not healthy for you
2007-11-08 03:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Itzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this relationship ASAP, don,t let him treat u like this u deserve and will get better. It is totally unacceptable 4 him 2 talk 2 u and treat u the way he did. He is a total idiot. If u were giving advice to someone else on this what would u b saying 2 them? Exactly, so don't u put up with it, as you have done NOTHING WRONG. he certainly is not worth your tears,how a man can b so hateful towards a woman is beyond me, just b strong and move on.
2007-11-08 03:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A perfect chance for you to move on. You are lucky to have found out about him before something would make it difficult to leave. Get out now while the getting is good. This guy is a Nogoodnik. Change your phone number and move into a different place, keep the address secret. In a short time you will forget him and find someone decent. Not to say it will be easy, but it will easier if you move right away and let time wipe him out. Believe me you are better off. There a better guys around just looking for you, give them a chance. Do not fall for pleas from him to come back, he will not change and you will be right back where you started. Get on with your life. You deserve much better.
2007-11-08 03:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don`t care about yourself. You must think that people will feel sorry for you if you stay. Caring for someone who
doesn`t care back is wrong.
This person is not even a friend let alone a boyfriend. Take the hints he has been giving you and find another place to live.
Put this unhealthy relationship out of your life and start fresh by first putting yourself and your priorities in order.
2007-11-08 03:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend obviously has insecurities and he needs to be addressed of that fast. He should not be calling you names like that, especially if you're not sleeping around. If he keeps throwing it in your face that you 2 shouldn't have gotten together in the 1st place, then maybe it's time to call it quits. He's obviously upset or unhappy w/ some aspect of your relationship and if it's been this rough for over a year, what else is there to do?
2007-11-08 03:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shortie [Mama of 2] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 19:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no exactly where this is going. i have been there and i had 2 kids with a man who could be related to your boyfriend he is past the honeymoon stage. now hes controlling then hes cussing and calling you names next will be threats and then a coma last of all death. after 8 broken bones 6 concusions and 5 yrs of my life wasted i left
2007-11-08 03:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone that supposedly loves you is calling you a whore and a skank, then where is the love? It's time to move on. There is no respect, and he has made his feelings about you clear. Nothing left to ponder.
2007-11-08 03:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave. It would be great if you weren't on the lease, because then you could just leave today with no strings attached. He doesn't want you there. It doesn't sound like you enjoy living there. Just get out as soon as possible.
2007-11-08 03:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Big Red Ten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy being a doormat, stay with this guy. But know that you will be miserable with any man who calls you such degrading names. Wait... he is no man. A real man would not treat a woman that way.
2007-11-08 03:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋