i have so many problems with my mom,she never treated me like her doauther.i'm in pain,i'm not happy at all,she limmited me i cant see my friends,go out,she behaves me very bad,she hates me,i can't tolerate her,she didn't listen to me,please help me i really get depress.thank u.
2007-11-08 02:28:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sadaf E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you have all ready tried to talk to her and it didn't help, then go to another adult first, someone else in your family that you trust, or a school counselor. Ask them to help you talk with your mother. If there is another adult there, she might feel she needs to pay better attention and might be more willing to work things out with you than if you continue trying to do it alone.
2007-11-08 02:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother/Daughter relationships are very hard! Your Mom probably knows you are depressed and doesn't know what to do for you which will make her feel angry, frustrated, and upset too. It's a mean circle that doesn't seem to have an end. One thing you could try is get a really pretty notebook and take turns writing eachother letters in it. This way you can respond to eachother without blowing up and really have time to think about what you want to say. Another idea is to ask her to attend counseling with you so you can get your feelings out with a mediator there that can help facilitate the conversation. I know it probably doesn't feel like it now but, your Mom is the most important person in your life and she does love you very much!!!!! No matter how much you hurt eachother she will always be there for you when it counts, to chear you on, to hold you when you cry, and to tell you when you're wrong or screwing up. That's her job. Try to give her some slack and that will make it easier for her to do the same for you. I once felt exactly the way you do. What you said in your question could've come verbatem out of my diary when I was younger. Now that I'm older my Mom and I have talked about what a rough time that was for both of us and she felt that I didn't love or want her. She thought tough love was what I needed because I wasn't giving her any rational feedback. If you want to talk to someone who's been thru what you're going thru you can email me, I'd be happy to chat with you and try to help you thru this. My email is jessica_shaner@yahoo.com
2007-11-08 02:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jmariel7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her youre not happy. dont listen to her if she treats you horribly. work on moving out.
2007-11-08 03:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by everyones.aletdown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do tell your mother that you're not happy. get in her face if you have to do what ever it takes to get her attraction and tell her it will make you feel better. if she doesn't listen to you go to you're consular see if they can make a date to tell your mother that you are depressed because she does this to you.
2007-11-08 02:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nina S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
had ever your mom talked her problem and pains to you ? you should give her relief and not share your pains at this stage.
2007-11-08 02:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋