If You Have Sex Before getting married will you go to hell??
2007-11-08 01:57:35 · 24 answers · asked by Amber R 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hell is real. Those who claim that it does not exist are just scared of the reality of the judgment and that those who are found unfaithful to the life that God has given will definitely go to where he/she belongs .
Regarding Sex, this is a wonderful physical union ONLY between husband and wife. The sanctity of marriage should be honored. It is a vow before God and your spouse to be faithful in ALL AREAS of life and this includes sex.
Others may reason, what if he or she is not good in bed, then you will never experience its wonder...WE DO NOT LIVE JUST FOR SEX... but in all we do, it should be accompanied with respect and faithfulness to the one with whom we should only share our body, our life and our everything.
The reality of sex is a matter of self-discipline. Sex outside marraige and having multiple sexual partners are the EASIEST tools that Satan can use to destroy families and individuals, of which when done continuously without repentance can be the car to drive us to hell and be Satan's companion. So we must be careful of this deady trap. God is forgiving, loving and gracious but not CHEAP! We always suffer the consequences of our sins.
Besides, when we are asked the moment we meet God face to face, He will not ask, " Did you enjoy sex?" but rather, " Were you faithful?"...Well done thou art good and faithful servant enter thou....NOT hell but heaven..
2007-11-08 02:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by mehden B 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Great Question: The religious people will tell you yes you will burn in hell if you do. Religious laws didn't have their roots in a moraltiy. It was okay for men to have sex with their wives and concubines (whores basically). It was not okay for the woman to have sex with anyone but her husband. The reason for this "morality" has to do with property and inheritance. Everything went to the first born child of a marriage. It didn't matter if a concubine got pregnant--it wasn't a child of the marraige-so it didn't matter who the male messed around with. If a woman did the same thing the lineage of the child (whose the father) would not have been known. Therefore threatening her with death etc for fooling around-in theory kept the linage pure (they knew the husband was the father). Sexual mores developed out of inheritance and property.
In the 21st century these issues no longer exist. Therefore the basis reason for the old double standard no longer exists either. Be careful, make sure you are ready for the emotional impact of such a commitment, be responsible, but worry not about sinning.
2007-11-08 02:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, Hell does not exist. But there may be consequences, if you are not doing it safely enough. Also you could get hurt emotionally, if you have jumped into a relationship to quickly, without a lot of thought put into, what you need in a relationship. God wants you to positively contribute to this world. If you do that, God will treat you well. A poor relationship, could hurt you in contrbuting to this world, and hurt your connection with God.
2007-11-08 02:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Only ALLAH(SWT) knows where you will go when you die. Pre marital sex is fornication which is a sin but it isn't a major sin. You will get bad points and bad credit for each time you have sex on your period and before marriage but it won't be the only sin that will lead you straight to Hell.
2007-11-08 05:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by wolfkarew 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hell is where you might be should you discover only after marriage that your partner and you do not fit sexually dear.
So go ahead, try it a lot before signing anything. Of course use condoms every time.
Enjoy !
2007-11-08 02:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What if you marry a guy who's terrible in bed? Then you'd have to worry about going to the hot place if you got a divorce.
Hell is a place invented to scare people into compliance with a book of fairy tales. Enjoy your life, and use a condom.
2007-11-08 02:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
In Islam it is absolutely forbidden.
But it won't lead you to hell , if you repent before you die, since no one knows when they should die or if they will be able to repent , better avoid this from the beginning.
2007-11-08 02:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by shdtt 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, you will just have lots of fun and be more than a useless and fumbling virgin when it comes to consumating your marriage.
2007-11-09 10:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Elvendra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People go to hell because they didn't believe in Jesus Christ.
Premarital sex is a grave sin, and something that we are repeatedly warned against in Scripture. Don't do it! As for "sexual compatibility"....you would be pleasantly surprised at how easy that is when you communicate openly with your spouse. My husband and I were both virgins on our wedding night, we had never even kissed someone else before. And yet....we are perfectly compatible. We discuss things honestly and we are aware of the other's tastes and preferences. I think communication and respect are all that you need for compatibility to happen. Don't let people sway you with that whole "how will you know if you guys can get along?" nonsense.
If you truly love and respect him, and truly respect yourself, you will save yourself for marriage. It's hard....but you can do it! Remember, "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me."
2007-11-08 02:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Eyed Christian 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋
I agree with tylertxan on the history of it. I would also urge you to make sure you protect yourself!
2007-11-08 02:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by kristawltn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋