Lately my sister acting like a right old b*tch and i just cant stand her at times,
shes so moody,she graduated from university on july and ever since shes been stuck at home looking for a job,i think shes depressed or something,
but that doesn't mean she needs to make me feel so low ,we always have fights and end up pulling each others hair out or scratching each other,
and the worst thing is i have to share a room with that cow,and she acts like a kid when she older then me (i am the youngest)
and i don't want to talk to her about it because we'd end up having an argument,my parents don't help either,they say that i should just ignore her behavior because shes got nothing better to do,
i know i can be annoying at times when i don't realise it but since shes the older one shouldn't she just ignore it or something, rather then jumping down my throat?!!
what should i do?
2007-11-08 01:37:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way,most of the time my parents take her side because she is mummy & daddys little angel!
2007-11-08 01:38:06 · update #1
It's probably been a difficult time for her, leaving uni and leaving all her friends. Not having a job is probably pretty stressful too.
Sometimes people can't help lashing out at the people closest to them when they are stressed.
2007-11-08 01:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Taloollah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to let it go, jus ignore her, it will wind her up but then she cant get u in trouble for nethin cz u aint sed nufin.
she myt be going thu the ladys stage, u kno.. periods and that, girls hormones are evrywhere once a months. just be nice to her, she might not like it but soon she will realise then treat u wif respect (me and my brother were the same, now were like best of mates) take care x
2007-11-08 09:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by 99moo99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...
No one can MAKE you feel anything... it's your choice to allow what others do to affect you negatively... your parents are right, ignore her... don't react to her arguments or comments, etc..
When you react, you are giving her what she wants... so stop it.... just treat her as you'd wish to be treated, even if she is a "cow"...
2007-11-08 09:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how much longer are you in school....try to avoid her as much as possible as sometimes sisters are not the best of friends no matter how hard you try...you will have to better your sitution as your parents seem to have already choosen sides...best to you
2007-11-08 10:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by kare34235 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋