some times it can be kind of kinky. So what comes first love or
you ego? MY definition of love is when you care more about the other person then yourself. I think you should be willing to do anything any time. Naturally my wife does not agree.
2007-11-08 00:03:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Sex needn't be degrading and if me and my partner are both enjoying the experience, then there is nothing degrading about it.
Some people are into certain kinks or perversions that include humiliation, bodily excretions, etc that could be considered "degrading" but those things don't appeal to me at all so I wouldn't choose to participate, love or no love.
Love shouldn't require someone to do something they fear or dislike to prove their depth of feeling.
2007-11-08 00:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she degrading you? I'm sorry, but willing to "do anything any time" is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Not being in the mood for physical love means you're egotistical? Maybe you could look some of these words up in a dictionary and then go see a therapist.
2007-11-08 09:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by FlowerChild 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No way should anyone degrade another person. Some things feel degrading to some women and to others it's just good fun. If it makes your wife feel degraded then you should have enough love and respect for her to not ask those things of her.
2007-11-08 08:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You can't possibly love someone and want to degrade them at the same time. Sex should not be about submission, it should be about mutual seduction. If you want to degrade your wife in the bedroom then don't be surprised when she decides to degrade you in divorce court. You're proving that you only care about yourself.
2007-11-08 13:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Self respect should come first, then give and take. She should never do what she doesn't feel comfortable doing. "Willing to do anything anytime" is not the philosophy to live by for anyone. You scratch my back, I scratch yours should be it.
2007-11-08 11:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Degredation is never a sign of love. It's just the opposite. Love is putting the welfare of the other person above your own, not expecting them to put your welfare above theirs.
2007-11-08 08:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Typical.
I think you should listen to her needs and stop being selfish. She may not feel in the mood to do "anything any time".
2007-11-08 08:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you love someone you would not want to "degrade" them.
2007-11-08 09:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by Angela C 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not one percent even
2007-11-08 08:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋