i did not know how to begin so i started like that, i try to follow Islam to my best , My question really is that i am a student of MBA, in my class there is just one girl excluding me and rest is boyz. what i want to know that can i hang out with guyz, i do not go out with them just everything is professional and this girl is often not present, and when she is i avoid her because she is a backstabber and has alwayz betrayed my trust
what i mean from being wiht these boyz is that we study , and have a few laugh other than that nothing else, but i want to know if its ok, or else i will be cut off from class activities
these people respect me and keep their distance cause they know i do not like them crossing there limits as most people do now adayz
please use references to guide me, JAZAKALLAH IN ADVANCE
2007-11-07 21:06:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
but there are MBA schools where there is segregation so what to do, as far as parda , i do that except for covering my face
2007-11-07 22:13:23 · update #1
E , iam not of what u r saying, plz give reference to prove ur statements, and
yes people i alwayz meet them in public place and as for the girl cant talk more about her, becausae what she does is unforgivable, but JazakAllah rest
2007-11-08 05:17:20 · update #2
thanx as usual rudedog
2007-11-08 05:19:51 · update #3
I think that it is OK. First of all, I say this because of the stress of getting education in both the Quran and the hadith. You must be aware of this. Secondly, I think the most important aspect of Islam is intention. Since your intention is pure, and only to seek knowledge, then it is OK. But also keep in mind that your position is clear to these other guys you hang out with. They might misunderstand some of your actions and that might leed to misunderstanding.
2007-11-08 03:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by denver007 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You should not hang out with the guys. If you need to do work with them then it should be done in a public area or if you could bring a relative. If you say everything is professional then you should have no problem working with the other girl in the class.
2007-11-07 23:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by je 6 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe it is ok based on the information you gave in your question. It says in Surah 9:119: "Oh you who have attained faith! Remain conscious of God, and be among those that are true to your word".
With this said I would assume your faith in Allah and the promise you made to Him keeps you a good Muslima...whether it be with boys or not.
2007-11-08 01:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ahmad H 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
EAC, are you a idiot? if it is ok for your sister to hang out with boys then thats you not what it says in Islam..There is no Hadith which says Prophet Mohammed(PBUH) was hanging around with unmarried women.. I think you need to go back and read your hadiths again. Maria, the first day she came to Prophet Mohammed(PBUH) she had become his wife because was a gift to him from the Eygptian King. Maria converted to Islam.
It is haraam for a girl to hang out with boys she in not related to, only time that it would be acceptable is if she is with her mahram.
2007-11-08 03:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think you should focus on your school and not worrying about the boys this will lead you to fitnah bc look your already worried about it, thinking, and now asking. I really do not think it matters what we say bc it looks like you have your mind set already. Allah alim.
2007-11-08 16:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well there are MANY muslim women who go to work and study where there are males but they are in their modest clothes and hijab and know their boundaries. and as far as all this is concerned you know wat your boundaries are as you wrote. Id advice that if you have to do group work and so on then limit ur talks ONLY to your work and get done with it. No need to indulge in unnecessary jokes and stuff which MAY lead to some guys thinking they can get free with you.
2007-11-08 00:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by NS 5 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Well, many of what some called are Islamic actually come non-Islamic traditions, while some others are just made up.
So there's a different between what are actually Islamic, what are 'Islamic tradition', and what are 'Islamic'.
It's up to you to follow what you want to follow. But it's best to follow the local customs without compromising your integrity.
As for hanging out with boys.
It's allowed, in the hadits it was once said that Muhammad himself regulary hangout with many unmarried females.
Muhammad once regulary hangout with Maria the Copt, who was still unmarried to him at the time. Both of them hang out so much that both Aisha and Hafsah were jealous. They insist Muhammad should stop seeing Maria, so he followed their wish and forbid himself from seeing her, after that God asked on why he forbid on what God have allowed.
2007-11-08 02:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
judge your self and don't listen to what others tell you and your God will guide you in the right path in life. your friends are who you choose not who others choose for you!
2007-11-08 03:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i guess not because I have heard such issue in Dr Zakir Naik's speech and yeah dont forget to do parda also......u know what according to Dr Issrar Ahmad in Islam it is not allowed to be in a co-education system........larkiyaan alag cool boys alag lolz
but i am not joking...
2007-11-07 22:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kashif E 3 · 6⤊ 4⤋
yes, its ok. you know the boundary.
2007-11-07 21:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Roxeth 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋