Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;
Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????
2007-11-07 17:24:46 · 5 answers · asked by YouWillRegretIt 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
And another thing that bothers me is her rubbing this all in my face and says shes moved on and that she doesnt love me.....would it take you meeting someone else to realize you didn't love the person you were with? I would like opinions on that too bcuz to me I don't think that is right. And she is 28 yrs old. I am 26. And the ring she supposedly got from her gf...she paid for with her own money!!!!! And she only left me 3 months ago and the first 2 months...she kept telling me she loves me and misses me and wants to know I am serious and that there was no one else then bam all of a sudden this! Another part to this question is.....She has bipolar and to me doesn't act like herself at all...in the 5 years I have dated her, I have never seen her this cruel...cuz another mean thing she said is..."I dont love you, get over it" ....she is also spending money like crazy and not paying off the bills and that is something she would get mad at me about...do you think this could be bipolar?
2007-11-07 17:25:46 · update #1
Why I am asking is cuz I don't understand why she is doing this....and cuz I still LOVE her. I personally don't think someone could spend 5 yrs with someone and then move on in 3 wks to a month. She's really messed up my mind and that's why I am asking for opinions. :(
And if you say it's because she is trying to make me jealous....why is she trying to make me jealous?
2007-11-07 17:26:47 · update #2
I suffer from OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder which is making this situation even the more harder for me.
2007-11-07 17:32:20 · update #3
I'd say shes on the rebound. She dosent know quite what shes doing and will realize it soon enough. Many people do this when a long term relationship ends because they feel lost and have to feel whole again and take the first thing that comes along and pretend its what they want.
2007-11-07 17:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa!! Too many games going on here. I see no future with you and the girl of 5 years. None. Zero. Zippo.
Move on with your life. Be done with her. Have fun! I hope your sickness is well under control. From your letter you sound great! Just play the field for a while, and when the right girl comes along, you will know it. Live together before you get married. (If that's OK with you.) On your wedding day, whenever that will be, you should have NO DOUBTS. I learned that the hard way!! Be happy. You sound like a great guy! For that you earn a star! Whoopie!!!! :)
2007-11-08 02:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that happen that fast they never loved you dude they only said love cuz you said it dont waste your time i know you might feel thats the only one you got rite now and you all alone but just do me one favor stay away from booze and take you meds you will be fine go to party's every chance you get be with friends real friends that wont keep bring up that 2 dollar trick like i said no booze and lots of fun the reason i say no booze cause that crap will make you want to call that person very bad and plead your case that could lead to harassment and that could lead to jail then you never be happy the best and fastest way to get over a trick is to replace them with a better looking trick you might not really be over that person but at least you be over somebody you know what i mean
2007-11-08 02:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by FROSTY DA GREATFUL 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you look at what you have written yourself taking out the mental disoder stuff you have answered your own question.well done and i am being seroius
2007-11-08 01:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are crazy
just analyse yourself and put in an improvement plan and go find another beautiful and better lady
forget the has been
2007-11-08 01:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by chezzrob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋