So i got my cousin she is 13, i am 19,, we are close, she tells me everything, we never argued.. but i have recently been getting mad at her, i did not want to say anything, but she is mean to her sister who is younger to her, she has been for a while, just did not say anything, she is very conceited, always tries to put people down, she thinks just because she is a straight A student she is better then anyone even me, i am at college wtf. so i have been ignoring her, not talking to her, cause it gets me mad, but she still talks to me, like nothing is wrong, why is that i dont know,, what should i do just tell her..
2007-11-07 15:01:10 · 6 answers · asked by Lucas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, I have friends that think they know more than everyone else. It is in there nature and how they are bought up. Even if you tell her it doesn't mean that she is going to listen or even agree with you. Most people don't like to be told about how they are, but shes your cousin and no matter what you both will still be family and she may not like it but she will still love you. So tell her, shes young and might look up to your advice. Hope I helped!!
2007-11-07 15:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by racheal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, preferably in person but if that is not possible write her a letter. Sounds like you are maturing & shes not. Give her time, she may or may not change. Then you will have to decide for yourself if you shoul stay away from her or not. People grow apart. thats not mean thats simply life.
2007-11-07 15:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by lil bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and let her know she doesnt know as much as she thinks and she hurts people and turns them off by the way she acts which PROVES she isnt smarter than everyone because smart people treat others with respect and love THATS true wisdom.
Explain to her how she makes them feel and tell her to put herself in their shoes.
2007-11-07 15:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel about the way she acts towards her sis and others, she obviously doesn't know you have a problem with her, since she is going along as if everything is normal.
2007-11-07 15:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by okimreadynow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that people who behave that way are already pretty unhappy, and it's mostly unhappiness with themselves.
If you let her get away with being disrespectfull then she will come to the conclusion that it is acceptable behaviour.
2007-11-07 15:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just tell her.. maybe she will change
2007-11-07 15:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by *TiFfAnY*<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋