Our semi's friday, and we're going as friends and i asked if she felt awkward that it was ok that she could tell me, and she was saiid "no, we (her and her friends are all going as friiends...but I was hoping it would bring us back together after not being together for so long....we have not hung out. I just feel that since school started she did not really get to see me the way i was out of school mode than in school mode, which was a huge difference this fall compared to when we first dated last spring.....when we hung out more off campus.
2007-11-07 15:01:04 · 10 answers · asked by Prudential Intern 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 days ago she complimented how she liked me haircut i got for the semi today, and i kinda blushed and tensed up the whole time....i just don't want her to know i still have feelings for her. And she asked "Is everything ok? you look really tense today..." but i answered really quickly "yep! i'm good!" and all day in the rest of our classes...I didn't talk to her....I just wished I knew if I still have a chance in getting back with her or something......I feel like i'm in a middle ground....
we went out for a little half a year, and i was her first b/f she's ever had...and we're like several classes together and partners for them.....i try not to make things awkward...but somehow i feel like i do....do i still have a chance? what should i do?
2007-11-07 15:01:28 · update #1
Her best friend/roommate hates the living crap out of me, and always talks behind my back, even in front of my friends. My friends have this tape on their floor with names and signatures, and there was a raincloud on one end of the tape....and the roommate asks my ex " you know what that raincloud is right?" implying me....and my ex giggled..what is that supposed to mean?
2007-11-07 15:01:40 · update #2
You'll never know until you ask her... it will only leave you wondering more and more if you don't ask her. Hiding the fact that you still have feelings for her doesn't help the situation either.
2007-11-07 15:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mavis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i think you should tell her you still love her. it wouldnt hurt any more then what you already feel. maybe she still loves you too. give it a rty. your first love will always be theres with you, and maybe you will always be together after this:) best of luck to you!
DONT listen to the people who say dont do it. thats not right. you cant help who you love. and you must do something about it.
you shouldnt care what her friends/roomates think. it shouldnt have an effect of what she feel for someone(you). the giggle means she was probably nervous that her roomate had said that, and had nothing to say to it. maybe you two could really fix up what was messed up in the relationship. i bet you can! just talk, always have communication! that is one of the most important things in a relationship. and you two should still have that, even if you have broke up. because when its there, the situation will be fixed. so go on and tell her, spill out what you fell. im sure shell be really flattered.
and whenever your with in in/out of school. all you should see if her,and you should jkust be you. try to ignore where you are. being in her presence will bring out everything, weather it be quick, or over time.
2007-11-07 15:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally when something ends it ends for a reason. One of the people might not like the reason and are hurt, but there is always a reason. Sometimes getting back together works, usually it doesn't, and it's better that way. Things end and life goes on and believe it or not...it all works out. Garth Brooks has a country song called 'Unanswered Prayers.' Very realistic. I wish you luck, and if it doesn't work out, there is love out there. Don't sacrifice yourself for something that might not want you the same way. Be happy. Have fun at the Semi.
2007-11-07 15:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by DENIECE R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still have a chance but with the friend that she got who happens not to like you then the chances that you and her being together again for a long time will be very slim because she seems to be the kind of person who easily got influenced by the people she hungs around it and you are not one of them.....so think about it if it really worth the time or maybe you can just move on and find yourself a new g/f and new friends.
2007-11-07 15:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to the semi see how things go pay attention to the way she looks or acts in front of other people with you like does she seem jealous about you dancing with other girls etc. and when its over , when you take her home tell her how you feel if she doesnt first lol and tell her its okay if she doesnt feel the same and that you are content being her friend and if not just leave it alone or wait to see if she wants to hang out again and if its meant to be it will happen
2007-11-07 15:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best policy is to just be honest with her, and ask her to be honest in return, talk about it and it will either work out the way you want it to or it won't, but at least you will know and can move on in one direction or the other rather than spinning your wheels
2007-11-07 15:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by grayeyeddame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your EX girlfriend for a reason. Don't even go there.
2007-11-07 15:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by la-la-lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel & get over your misery one way or the other - not being cruel, just honest
2007-11-07 15:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by teriod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from my mistake..dont get back with your ex..that's why they're called exes
2007-11-07 15:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by shy_bell80 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's an ex...DONT DO IT!
ITS A TRAP!
2007-11-07 15:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋