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ok well i only have 3 days of school left... i really really like this guy.
he sometimes shows signs he likes me - yesterday he put his arm around me but then 2day there was NOTHING

i realy like this guy and what could i do in the next few days so that him and me could maybe go out.. ?

if ur gona say ask him out, can u tell me how to more directly...

please help me out i have such a big crush on him !!!

2007-11-07 14:46:33 · 17 answers · asked by La P 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

Why dont you just say...hey schools over soon....do you still wanna keep in touch & hang out, maybe see a movie or go to a concert or something....I have really ejoyed your company and don't want ot to end.

2007-11-07 14:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by ilovecats 2 · 1 0

Do you know what he is interested in? If so, try and read up on it or google it, and then start a conversation about it. If he likes sports, ask him if he watched the game on Sunday. If he like movies, ask him if he saw such n such movie and what did he think of it. That will get the conversation started and then you can see how it is going and casually ask if he wants to go for a coffee after school or at lunch. But don't gush over him - be casual but not aloof. Smile and make eye contact. Maybe touch his arm for a second when you are talking to him. You can ask him if he would like to go to see such n such movie with you or whatever it is that you do in your area for fun. Tell him that it will be "dutch treat". I don't know if you know what that term means but it means that you will pay for yourself and he pays for himself. See how that "date" goes and if you guys have a good time, I'm sure he will make the next move. Good luck.

2007-11-07 22:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by oldbeatlefan53 6 · 0 0

well, try spotting him out and walk towards him putting your arms around him and whispering into his ears, telling him that you like him or pat a kiss on his cheeks.

I've ran into this as well. but it happened like this: we both worked at the same company but i was an assembler and he was the fork lift guy from the other building. he would drive the fork lift over to pick-up bins and he would joke with me say "having fun yet". the first moment i saw him i fell in love. 2nd time around i took a good look at him knowing he might have a gf. 3rd time around he asked me if i was avail. i then thought maybe he didn't have a gf. so he asked me to go out to a bar with him. I'm not a drinker i sad and never was. he said oh that's fine well just sit there and have some fun. i said OK. after going out we decided to go out couple more times. and then since we've been together, it's been 10 yrs. with 1 child. I am happy i made the right move.

I hope this helps. good luck.

2007-11-07 23:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley 3 · 0 0

okay here the thing if ur not gonna see much of him when schools out.... leave it alone..... but if u are u just need to straight up sit down and tell him exactly how u feel about him before its to late or.... u know.... if not that ask him to come over and chill and watch a movie or something and just kiss the boy or something he will get the hint

2007-11-07 22:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by queen 2 · 0 0

Find out what he likes. Maybe he's into sports. Or music. Whatever. And make it real laid back. Like-- I've got an extra ticket for.... you wanna go?

Just don't make it a big deal. Or, I was thinking of going to this movie, you want to go? Even if he says no thanks, don't freak out or act like you're crushed. Shrug it off. Act cool about it. Act like you asking him was an after-thought(even though it wasn't), and that even though he said no, it's no big deal and you'll find someone else to go. Like he's the one missing out.

2007-11-07 22:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just ask him questions about what hes going to be doing and see if you can make some plans with him.

2007-11-07 22:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by That girl 2 · 0 0

you should show more signs that you like him..in other words if he puts his arm around you make sure he knows that your ok with it..show him that you are comfortable with that and that you are interested in him ..chances are he likes you to but is just trying to figure out if you like him or not.

hope this helps :)

2007-11-07 22:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

be honest...kinda flirt with him..like
hand on the knee type stuff and the flirty smiles

like when you guys walk..kinda smack his hand like your going to hold it but almost like your low high fiving him in a swaying motion,
then say hey schools almost over we should hang out this weekend

:)
or something like that-

2007-11-07 22:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hopefully you have his number? If so txt him and ask him if he wants to do something together?

If you havent got his number, when your talking to him, just ask him, hey, i was wondering if you wanted to hang out or something?

oh if u hvnt got his number, ask for it! by saying hey i was gonna call u but realised i havent got ur number!?

hope this helps!

2007-11-07 22:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 0 0

Just walk up to him and tell him that you like him and that you would like to go out! Tell him that you have liked him for awhile but you didn't know how to tell him!
Good luck!

2007-11-07 22:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Parrish 3 · 0 0

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