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with this guy that has shown alot of interest in me
our friends know each other pretty well
so one day we met at a party , smoked a bowl and then i left
then he i guess found my my space and said hey and gave me his number
ever since then he has been texting me to kick it with him but I always said no because i was busy
the truth is ; i dont think im really as pretty as he thinks, i was lookin pretty cute that day though . i just dont think he would be interested in me. im not ugly but im not flawless either like all the girls that try to get with him . should i just skip it cause im not comfortable or should i jsut go for it and hope for the best
i jsut dont want to meet up with him and think wow shes really not as pretty as i remember, or wow shes not flawless like the rest of the girls like me.i know it may sound stupid but i just want some advice.

2007-11-07 13:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

You need to give yourself a break....not everyone is interested in looks. You said that your not bad looking. This guy is evidently interested and wants to get to know you. He may think that you are a great person. I say go for it and if it doesn't work at least you tried. Plus, you don't want to think later on what it could of been.

2007-11-07 14:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by ameri0903 3 · 0 0

You need to stop being so down on yourself!! If you act confident you will show it, act like your not good enough and it will show. He contacted you because he liked you.

You refer to other girls as flawless.... everyone has flaws its just that each person picks their own flaws out and concentrates on them too much just like youre doing.

Take some time for extra self pampering and it will boost your confidence, at least it helps me.

You'll never know if you don't try hanging out with him. Passing it up just because you have insecurities which everyone does would be a bad choice. Go into it with a positive attitude and see how it goes. Good luck!!

2007-11-07 22:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have you ever seen a nice looking person and then seen their date and think "Why are they dating that ugly person when they could do so much better"? The good looking one obviously sees something in the other that you don't see. I KNOW that you aren't as unattractive as you are imagining you are, but regardless of looks he sees something in you that he likes. Don't be intimidated by all the other girls he's gone out with. You are you and that makes you special. Go out with him and have a good time.

2007-11-07 22:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by checkthisout! 5 · 0 0

Why are you putting your self down? Maybe you aren't a beauty queen , but you must have something or he wouldn't have looked you up on my space to talk to you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and he must think you are. How are you going to know unless you give it a try. So go for it.

2007-11-07 22:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0 0

the thing is if your saying your not pretty most likely you are and give the guy a chance some guys dont like the fake plastic girls who put out easy there not a chase maybe he likes a cool girl to hangout with just let him get to know you maybe he likes who you are .

2007-11-07 22:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by hannah c 2 · 0 0

Maybe he's not looking for flawless beauty. Perhaps he likes you the way you are. Be proud of who you are and go for it. If he finds you not to his liking, don't worry about it.

2007-11-07 22:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by poolplayer 6 · 0 0

i think you should give it a try you neerv know unless you try and he shouldnt like you for being flawless i mean if hes really in to you it should work out.

2007-11-07 22:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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