I love him but I am confused?

Question

I am in love with this guy...we do everything together..I talk on the fone like all day...we been togrther for like 6 months now.. He is like mii best friends..but i love him but the scary part is I don't know if he loves me bakk..I dnt want to rush him into anything..I am confused wat should I do?

ok no I have been wit him for six months...I alwayz go and chill wit him ..and we are alwayz on the fone ..ok didn't mean to confuse anybody

Answer 1

Mmmm..yep a tough situation.Afraid of loosing his great friendship if you tell him.If you like, you could let it slip naturally and slowly, so that he is more prepared to accept its reality.For instance....tell him that you really care about him and love being his best friend.......or if you wanted to be more direct, ask him what he thinks about you...but not in a general sense, say ' Do you think we could be more than just friends if we were the only two people left on the planet.?'....'Would it feel natural for you..I suppose It would for me ' and then, change the subject, so that he don't feel put on the spot.

Answer 2

He sounds like a great guy from everything you have written about him. I can also see why you love him. But I am confused about something:you do everything together,have been together for like 6 months, he is like your best friend so how come you don't know how he feels about you.All you can do now is to boldly go to him and ask him about his feelings for you; you can do it at a place and time that is comfortable for yo The answers that he gives you will determine your next course of action. Good luck.

Answer 3

Perfect love casts out all fear. I think you should tell him how you feel and be prepared to count your losses and move on if he does not feel the same way. Six months is long enough to figure out if you love someone and if you want to be in a long term relationship. Do not let him or any one else for that matter waste your time. Time is your life, and time is a gift from God. Value your time, because life is real short.

Answer 4

Girl you have been talking to him on the phone for about six months as you say and you are starting to have feelings for him, i am just wondering do you see him often or you just talk to him over the phone, because you would be able to tell if he had some type of feelings for you in person not really over the phone because you do have some people who play with other people emotions and just get a kick out of it so make you choice wisely if you are going to ask or just let it play itself out. so good luck to you

Answer 5

Love is a very complicated thing. and yes, you can be in love and he might not be.. If after 6 months, you don't feel something tingling in your stomach, it might not be love.. but... there are ways to ask your questions and get answers that give you some kind of clue as to how he feels.. start talkin future events and ideas .... take it slow, but dig a little.. you may have him wrapped around your little finger and not even know it..

Answer 6

i was on the other end of this, be cautious of what you do. dont push him too much. just help him along, hint at things you want. hope this helped feel free to contact me

Answer 7

Just let him express his feelings when he is ready. he obviously cares for you if he talks to you every day.Just say you mean so much me. and tell him you care. he will reciprocate in time.

Answer 8

well does he say if he luvs try telling him tht u r the only one u luv and ask him!

Answer 9

DON'T RUSH YOURSELF EITHER....LOVE IS NOT A WORD THAT SHOULD BE THROWN AROUND LOOSELY. RELAX......THERE IS A WHOLE WORLD AROUND YOU...ENJOY IT...

Answer 10

ask him this "how do you feel about us ?" or "where do i stand with you?"