Strip club addiction?

Question

Im sick and tired of pissing money at the strip club. Ive blown over $50,000 at the strip club in the last 11 years. Im addicted to live pornography. I feel so guilty about spending all that money. I could have given it to someone that needs it . Why am I doing this and who else can I give this money to ...I wish I was broke ...

Answer 1

The bad part about strippers is they are overpriced hookers that don’t put out. They will almost never do anything with you outside the club. Often they are addicted to drugs although that’s not your problem. And besides you are not getting anything from them anyways, it is not like they are a friend you can call up if you needed help. And they typically have no respect for you and pretty much are always deceitful. They usually want to extract as much money as possible while giving as little as possible. It is a relationship that goes nowhere. I have never known a guy who dated a stripper, and I have known many, and had a good relationship. This kind of relationships always has a lot of problems. They are very rocky from the get go and only get worse with time. It never ever works out. While most strippers are like this and these negative characteristics are by no means exclusive only to strippers, all this gets old after a while, albeit it is better than jerking off at home alone.
Now all that’s the bad news.

50,000 dollars over 11 years comes out to:
$4545.45 a year
$378.78 a month
$12.63 a day

50K over 11 years is not so bad. It depends on what you a getting. The quality and types of services you are receiving. Hell I paid a lot more for 6 years of marriage. And got less in return. So you are doing better than I am!
If you are married I have to ask why are you doing this? Has your wife got fat and lazy, cropped her hair, nag and complain about everything and rarely and begrudgingly puts out. The longer you wait the worse this will get and the more it will cost. After 10 years you could be paying alimony forever. Get out ASAP. And don’t get married again. No marriage and the great female con - just Google that for more info.
I am a little confused why you feel bad about this. Is it just the money or do you feel guilty for going to a strip club because you enjoy beautiful women. I was talking my friend's wife today and she said she has a friend who works at the Spearmint Rhino and makes over 300K a year. Then she went into how she is victimized by this. I said 300k is more than most doctors make, I don’t understand how she is a victim. It is the guys that are victims if anyone is. For what little service strippers give it is a fraud and way overpriced in my opinion.
You’re a guy and you need a woman and there is nothing wrong with that. You want a good-looking woman, that means not fat and ugly. That is not so easy to come by in America, as a majority of women are overweight. In most other countries this is not the case. Lets faces it, you need to get laid. For some strange reason women will criticize you for this. That’s like criticizing someone for breathing; it makes no sense and really is just total bs. Who needs that.
I just came back from the Philippines and the women are ten times better than anything here in America. And the Philippine nightlife, type that in Google and find out more.
For what you pay for just one lap dance you get the girl all night doing everything you want. You want a loyal beautiful girlfriend or wife. You have too many choices. It is time to think outside of the box and make some changes in your life.

Answer 2

Addicted To Strip Clubs

Answer 3

Strip Club Addiction

Answer 4

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Strip club addiction?
Im sick and tired of pissing money at the strip club. Ive blown over $50,000 at the strip club in the last 11 years. Im addicted to live pornography. I feel so guilty about spending all that money. I could have given it to someone that needs it . Why am I doing this and who else can I give this...

Answer 5

You need to seek out counseling for porn addiction now.

There is help out there and I strongly suggest you make the effort to change your life. It won't be easy, but then what other choice do you have?

You made some bad choices by getting involved in that way of life, now you need to get yourself out of it and live a better life. You can do it, get help.

Answer 6

You need to hook up with the real thing. Get a girlfriend or spend that time with your wife. Stop living in a fantasy world and make it become reality at home. Your wife or girlfriend will probably love the attention as long as you act in a gentlemanly way about it..

Answer 7

This is not a addiction, it started out as a fun place to go to then eventually a want and now it seems a trap, you know how much money your spending...and on what filth is it worth it?...ask yourself do you have the willpower to stop going?

Answer 8

Yeah dude, that's why I stay out of strip clubs... one time I spent my entire paycheck on lap dances... ug.

Answer 9

That's very sad. I guess it's somewhat like other compulsions--the compulsion to drink and take drugs, for example. I imagine loneliness may play some part, as it does in alcoholism.

Perhaps you need to go the the main website for Alcoholics Anonymous and read some of their material.

Their main idea is that the only way for an addict to break an addiction is to recognize his powerlessness over it, and to ask a Higher Power--which doesn't have to be God--for help.

Carl Jung, the psychologist, tried to treat a man for severe alcoholism. Finally, he gave up, and, in total exasperation, perhaps, said "You need to find God." A group of alcoholics decided there might be something to that, tried it, and were successful. That group led to the founding of AA.

The simple answer, is "Pray." This might not be so simple if you don't believe in God, but I suspect that you do, somewhere inside, because of the guilt and remorse that you feel.

If you like, try repeating these words: "I can do all things in Christ, who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13).

And remember that there is no reason God will not help you, because you're no worse than anybody else.

I don't mean to preach, but I hope this helps you.

NOTE: I did a little research on this subject and found that, unfortunately, there is a certain anti-porn movement that is led by the exteme right wing. There are groups online that seem to be set up to help people with porn addictions, but they may have a religious and/or poltical agenda--like those groups who are out to "cure" gay people.

It's unfortunate because I know there are many men who'd just like to stop doing this stuff--wasting their money, etc. They may have a religious reason, or they may not.

If you decide to look into these groups for help, you might want to be cautious about what you're getting involved in.
Depends on your own beliefs.

Answer 10

Give it to me. Thank-you...