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with your parents...if you were a girl would you find this a turnoff?

2007-11-07 12:18:26 · 49 answers · asked by Jeremy G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

49 answers

Not having a future is a turnoff. If you've got a life plan and you're doing something to get there, then you're probably alright. If you don't have goals, ask yourself what kind of woman marries a man without any goals as opposed to the kind of woman that marries a man with his stuff together.

Good luck with all!

2007-11-07 12:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Corey E 3 · 2 0

if you can afford it man it's time to move out. I am not saying this because of females it is for yourself. Time to get out and start making it on your own. There will be females that find this a turnoff and some won't.
Hopefully by now though you are already wanting your own space and to go out and explore the world.

2007-11-07 12:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sundi 6 · 1 0

Depends on the girl. But, hate to say it, most will probably find it as a turnoff. Then again its not like your 30. That would be sad.

2007-11-07 12:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0 1

It would depend. Are you going to school and working or mooching? Are you paying rent and your own bills? Do you do your own laundry/cooking/cleaning?

Theres nothing wrong really with living with your parents. What is a turnoff is when you are living OFF your parents. I am 24. I would not now nor ever date someone seriously who was just mooching off their parents.

2007-11-07 15:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, if the person has a job or is going to school it is not a bad thing. You can save your money up until you have enough to live on your own. People might say things about it, but whatever you should move out when you can finacially take care of yourself so you won't have to depend on other people. Don't worry the right type of girl will come alone. :) Take care

2007-11-07 13:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by mizzpretti 6 · 0 0

No way!!! If you are going to school or working and setting goals for yourself then more power to you. I promise you that you will find there are many that will move out and then back in again because they came to a bridge that could not quite cross. I would take some time to go out of my way for my parents ( grab a few groceries,make dinner,ect ) just to show you appriciate them. I bet you'll be a great success one day and as for the girls... you'll end up with a good one!

2007-11-07 13:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No. Many people live with their parents until they finish college and get on their feet. I just had a friend move out at 25. No worries. Just make sure you're heading towards being self-sufficient soon. Finish school, keep a job, have a car and make your payments. It would be worse if you were 22, unemployed, not going to college, etc.

2007-11-07 12:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I'd say it depends on your situation. If you've got a job and are helping your parents with the bills, etc. then it's iffy. If you're going to school full time and either have a p/t job or no job at all...then you're fine. But if you're 22 and living at home off of your parents with no job and you're not going to school, then yeah...you should get off ur butt and go get a job and get the heck out. (Not saying YOU you, just you in general) Like my cousin...he's 25, has a GOOD job and still lives at home with his parents and his mom won't kick him out. DUH! But...being your age and living at home is kinda a turnoff for girls, but if you're going to school and you can't afford to move out on your own, then let em think what they want. When you get out of school and have the moolah they want...well it's just too late for them!

2007-11-07 12:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 3 · 1 0

no 22 is not to old to live with your parents, and I dont find it a turn off, some women might though. if there is not reason that he need to live with his parents I would sugest that he trys to find an appartment, it would just work out better (women would see him as an independent man rather than a guy the cant make it on his own)

2007-11-07 12:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by LizzyB- Its a BOY!! 5 · 1 0

For me, it would depend on why you're living at home. Have you at least attempted college? Do you have a stable job? Are you taking care of your parents for some reason? If no was the answer to all of the above, then, yes, I'd be turned off.

2007-11-07 13:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi W 3 · 0 0

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