Now i want one and dont seem like its going to happen. We have been trying for a month now and nothing happened yet. Im getting upset because they keep thinking i am but im not. Is it possible since ive never had anyone in 30years cu*m in me that maybe now i can cant have a baby. When i say never i mean never!!!
2007-11-07 10:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Relax!!!!! Most couples even when trying daily don't concieve that first month...Most doctors won't even do a fertility write up on you until you've been trying unsuccessfully for at least 6 months or longer depending on your age. Google ovulation tracking and start a diary so you have a good idea what day you ovulate on. Also consider that in general women will only produce one egg a month. If you stress out over it all you'll do is bring more drama into your life and make the whole creating a baby thing into work instead of the fun it's supposed to be.
2007-11-07 14:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by starfire978 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all NEVER give into pressure to have a child , that you didn't really want in the first place. You will resent that child and that's not fair to the baby. Babies should be wanted and loved by both parents not because inlaws and outlaws want grandchildren.
If the man you are with and I do hope you're legally married , isn't man enough to tell his parents that you don't want children and not to be able to stand up to their displeasure , he's probably not the man for you.
My brother and sister in law tried for 15 years to have my nephew , he's 21 now and as much as my sil claimed she wanted a baby she couldn't wait to get back to work and her son was at babysitters from the time he was three months old.
Never never never give into pressure to have a child just because someone else wants you to provide them with a grandchild. Get em a puppy or a kitten to love. Because it sounds like you're not ready to have children if you can fall to pressure that quickly. A child isn't like a dolly you get and then put on the shelf , it's a life time commitment.
As my mum used to say any fool can make a baby but it takes a full fledged responsible adult to raise a child.
2007-11-07 14:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is consult a doctor first so they can help you to understand when the best time is to try and concieve, or if your fertile.
2007-11-07 10:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well "Sex Kitten" ...I wouldn't be to discouraged after a whole month of trying.
Try to stay calm and patient...some people try for years..30 days isn't too long to be trying.
2007-11-07 10:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your ob/gyn. He or she will help you to know what factors would make it harder or easier for you to become pregnant. You should rely on this doctor's advice assuming you are already a patient of this doctor. They would know your body and whatever problems it may have.
2007-11-07 12:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont happen over night for everyone , you need to be patient and hang in there and know it will happen when ment to
2007-11-07 11:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by gemma b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋