OK recently I've been really suspicious of my sister. Whenever someone asks her if she has a crush on a boy or something, she says something like "Uh.... I'm not into boys YET.." SHE IS 14!! Most girls these days are into boys at only 6 years old! and today my computer is not working so I am using her computer. And she has this folder with like HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of pictures of these random girls, not porno, just random girls. And sometimes when she sees a girl who is dressed very slutty, she keeps staring at her. Could she be a lesbian?
2007-11-07 09:46:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah...I'd say she's a lesbian. Pretty obvious from here! But really, if she is, then don't be shocked.
2007-11-07 09:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by James! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your sister is still young and maybe trying to figure things out for herself. Whether she is or not be supportive and love her unconditionally. My bestfriend's sister is a lesbian and she didn't really know until she was in highschool. This could just be a phase for your sister and she needs to work through it with no pressure and negativity from someone she loves (you)....Talk to her and find out where her head is. She may need you more than you know. A big sister is a resource of advice and comfort. Be that and more for her......
2007-11-07 09:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by redladee2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if she is, would you love her any less? There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. She also just may not be ready for dating or a late bloomer. Don't hassle her on why she hasn't tried to date anyone or whether she is interested in guys or girls. It really isn't any of your consern.
2007-11-07 09:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she might be. I'd back off though, with the questions about boys. She's probably still figuring out her own feelings and who she is/what she wants. And she's probably self conscious about the whole thing. Back off, let her come to you and tell you what she wants to tell you, when she's ready. In the meantime, make it clear that you love her no matter who she is or what she does.
2007-11-07 10:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be or she may just not like boys right now. Some people mature faster than others. If she happens to be...don't let that affect your relationship with her. Good Luck!
2007-11-07 09:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might be but if you really want to find out then talk about lesbians like if was normal, dnt make it too obvious but yeahh and since she's only 14 shes probably not ready to come out . And who know she might be bi.
2007-11-07 09:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Aili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls don't get"in to guys" till latter in life, i would ive it time and if she is 17, 18, 19. and still nothing then talk to her about it.
2007-11-07 09:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looool naa dnt loose ya head... i fink dat ur sis is jus imbrssd to tell you about her crush n so thats why she says she aint interested in boys...also the random girls could just be her role models or sumin and as 4 wen she sees a slut..it might jus be jeliousy or sumin lool
2007-11-07 09:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care? there is nothing wrong with it. maybe she is confused. just leave her alone. be there if she wants to talk about it, but if she doesnt want to just forget about it. being homosexual/bisexual is not a big deal. i hate it when people get all shocked when someone turns out to be into the same sex.
2007-11-07 09:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dalek Queen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It may be nothing. But if it is, she is still your sister. She still needs your love and friendship.
2007-11-07 09:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋