There is a dance coming up on the 29th. I really want to ask this girl to the dance, but the thing is we're not on that same level yet. Like friendship wise. I've talked to her online a couple of times and said "hi" to her in the hallway and school once or twice. I don't really know how I can get to know her better. Shes in none of my classes, her friends are none of my friends. And idk, but its weird, cause I talked to her online.
I was just thinking, like if I there was a guy who was talking to you online a lot, but not really in school, would you be kinda creeped out? Like I really want to get to know her, but there's not a chance except over MSN messenger, where I talk to her.
Btw im not asking her over the computer, im gonna ask her in person, if we ever get there. I just want to get to know her better and talk to her.
My question is, will you feel akward or creeped out, if I talk to you online, but rarely do in school.
2007-11-07 09:44:07 · 6 answers · asked by kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think anyone cares realy, just asker her if she been asked to the dance, or tell her that you and her and a couple of friends should go to the dance.
2007-11-07 09:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by poblo m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be creepy of you weren't talking to her at school but it would be very confusing for her.
She'll be trying to work out whether you really like her or not...
How about next time you write, say to her that she's so easy to talk to over the computer but that you're shy when you see her ( she won't think bad of you - she'll think its sweet ).
Ask her if she wants to go to the ' mall..park.., walk home together... ' (whatever you feel is appropriate but keep it low key).
Or you could ask her out over the computer - then if she says yes arrange to meet her for coffee .. ( or whatever) so you can discuss the details. If she says no, take it on the chin and be polite ( she may just have other plans..)
Be brave, you sound like a nice guy, & good luck.
2007-11-07 17:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by **))** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell her on-line that you'd like to talk face-to-face like humans were meant to lol, and get the chance to talk to her @ school that way...
but anyway, i wouldn't be creeped out, i'd just be more inclined to not want to go with you (sorry lol) but its true, think about it. you only talk on-line, and you say that you're not on "the same level friendwise"..you know? she probably wouldnt be creeped out, she'd just be thinking "oh well i've only talked to him a few times, and thats on-line" she may just think of you as a person to talk to just fer kicks...so she'd just not feel like she knows you in a way that she would if she wanted to go 2 the dance with you.
BUT, you have said hi in school and stuff. I wouldn't be discouraged. Get out there and ask her, cuz if you don't, you'd never know if she would have said yes or not! it's worth a try! if she says no, keep talking and try to talk more in school ok?
Good luck!
2007-11-07 17:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Marguerite R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why you couldn't find the time or why you haven't asked me to go out somewhere or meet you after school, but that's just me. I think everyone feels differently about this subject.
Also, I don't think you're a stalker.
2007-11-07 17:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Dreams♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really wanted to talk to her, you should go out of your way to find her. Chat her up a little more, find out what classes she has and where, and if you're nearby, say hi. That's not stalker, that's confident.
2007-11-07 17:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no school is crowed online is no one on
2007-11-07 17:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋