A why does this happen question for females?

Question

my question is why does this happen? i have a female that i work with and the situation is like this, for 2 or 3 days in a row she will come by speak, smile and some mild conversation and then for a week we will not speak and then the cycle repeats itself, it just seems odd that one day we will be buddy-buddy and then the next total strangers why does this happen-note i do not begin the conversations when we have them she does, but why does this happen?

Answer 1

She's just keeping tabs on you.

Answer 2

She puts herself out there when she starts a conversation with you. The idea is supposed to be that she will start some conversations and that you will start others. In essence, you are falling down on your part of the relationship by not initiating any conversations yourself.
Because she works with you and has an interest in maintaining friendly relations with you, she continues to attempt to connect with you. However, she will not continually start the conversation because she does not want to be seen merely as an annoyance.

Answer 3

I do this same thing to one of my co-workers. Funny you should ask this. Sometimes I talk to him and sometimes I don't . I don't plan to ignore him, it just happens. I get caught up in my work and sometimes just have stuff that I am thinking about. I wouldn't take it personally. Because it is at work it is sometimes hard to be on the same page everyday. If you want the attention, then you why don't you go talk to her on the days that she doesn't? It is worth a try.

Answer 4

Sometimes working in close quarters with the same people day after day leads to wanting a little space for oneself. It is also possible that she has worn out subjects for conversation. I know with myself I am just not great with small talk. It isn't that she doesn't like you, she just doesn't have much to say for awhile. When she does, she will share it with you.

Answer 5

It sounds like she's trying to get you to respond and you're not very responsive so she repeats the routine a couple of days later. Why don't you start the conversation one day to break the ice?

Answer 6

I study a piece of writing in an previous difficulty of the ring which stated that any one is making an attempt to make women human beings's boxing an Olympic pastime, which to me is honest because women human beings do combat professionally. i think of Ali retired rather than face Anne Wolfe, and who can blame her? She hit like a ton of bricks? and that i think of Martin is retired and is lower back domicile in West Virginia.

Answer 7

Maybe she likes you and thinks you dont like her, considering she always has to start the conversation. Or maybe she is embarrassed to be seen with you, girls go through a stage where their appearance is VERY important and she is scared of what her "friends" will think

Answer 8

Maybe she wants to be your friend but doesn't want to be pushy. Some women at work are afraid if they get to close, you will think they are trying to be better then you or take over your job.

Answer 9

probably because she happens to think of something to say to you, only once every few days. She's just being friendly/work friends. But since you emphasize that she is female, I think you have a crush on her and think that she is trying to flirt with you. She probably isn't.

Answer 10

she has personal problems that are stressing her out and secluding herself from friends/coworkers.

other scenario - hate to be brutally honest, she doesn't like you (could be due to jealousy in the office or w/e) and is only talking to you b/c she is trying to cover up the fact that she doesn't likes you. wouldn't be surprised if she is an office gossip...

Answer 11

Women tend to have a lot of mood swings. Somedays we might feel very good and friendly, others we just want to deal with nobody else.