Okay - I found a picture in my Fiance's sent text messages on his phone. It was a picture of his 'member'. I confronted him about this and he said he found some random picture online and sent it to a girl online who kept bugging him. He said it is not a picture of him....but I know him pretty well and I think he is lying.
Guys - should I believe him?
2007-11-07 09:20:42 · 34 answers · asked by MorganQueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add - he sent the picture on my Birthday!!!!!
2007-11-07 09:35:29 · update #1
Its a picture of his ... stuff... You know his.... stuff...when you see it. Why would a girl be asking for a picture of him? Why couldnt he just say no? This problem falls into a trust issue not to mention other things. Don't blow it off- talk to him about it. This problem is also immature- again im going back to why would this girl ask and why cant he say no? You say this is your fiance? I think he needs a few more years to grow up before he even thinks about marriage. Find yourself a better man- there is NO excuse for this.
2007-11-07 09:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by jill@doodle 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What a liar, and its not even a good lie. Ok mister, why are you talking to chicks online, and why do they have your number, and vis versa?!?! huh!! Second, unless he is gay, he wouldnt dare have a picture of someone elses "member" on his phone.Third, Girl, your his fiance, dont you know what it looks like?!
I would just accuse him of lying and be on my way. The excuse was so lame. He didnt even try to convince you of something believable.
2007-11-07 09:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by tenchyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your fiance?
He allowed a girl to bug him and claimed that he randomly got a pic of a 'member' online and sent it via mms?
If I were you, I would not be bothered about the lying bit.
Your fiance's got issues... scary issues.
2007-11-07 09:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by funsnuggle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is your fiance then he has no right sending or receiving any pictures from a woman. Unless its his family. it all stops when you get engaged or married. He is hiding something and you should find out what. Better now then later
2007-11-07 09:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by greenikat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to pull down his pants so you can take a picture of his member. Now compare the two before his eyes and see if he's telling the truth.
2007-11-07 09:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Andre 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg, im so sorry, thats so awkward. at least you had the guts to say somehing to him. tell him what you jsut said, say you know him pretty well, and that pic looked pretty familiar. say if it was a one time thing than ok, and move on, but if its somethign else youd rather knw now. make ure hes not freaking out about being married, maybe he is pulling away because he is nervous.
2007-11-07 09:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by 00000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems really fishy. Honestly, that would piss me off, and I wouldn't believe him. I have to tell you though, that I am an overly-jealous over=protective fiancee, so anything like that would cause me to flip out. What was the girl doing? And why did he feel the need to respond to her actions in that way?
2007-11-07 09:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Happy. Finally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morgan: He is totally avoiding the truth.
Liar, Liar pants on the Southern California fires!
2007-11-07 09:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sustagurl2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it off girlfriend. He's a cheater. The premise that anyone would send a "random" girl a picture of his member to get her to leave him alone, sounds like a bag of BS to me. leave him. He's SOL and so are you if you stay, once a cheater...always a cheater..
(this happened to me once)
2007-11-07 09:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If this guy kept even just plain talking with this girl after she made that request, something is very off. In fact, I'm not really even that sure there was such a request.
2007-11-07 09:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋