What should I do? She is much older than him. Him and I are the same age. I think he is afraid to try anything with me. Should I make the first move?
2007-11-07 09:19:27 · 35 answers · asked by RoseBud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm also in a relationship. He said for us to leave our significant others but I just don't know how safe this would be.
2007-11-07 09:56:47 · update #1
stay away til he is available!
2007-11-07 09:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by heymumma1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely do not make the first move. Since he's the one in a relationship he should have the guts to make the first move and more importantly have to guts to break up w/ his gf if he really wants to be w/ you. Otherwise your the girl on the side and if he decides he's had enough he still has his gf and you're ditched and heart broken.
Also think about the situation, if he cheats on his gf, then breaks up w/ her to be w/ you what makes you know for sure that he won't do the same to you later on?
2007-11-07 09:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. If he really liked you, then YOU would be his girlfriend. His actions speak louder than words - as long as he is in a relationship with her, he likes her better.
Tell him if he really cares about you, then he will break up with her before he tries anything with her. Don't accept being his mistress or girl on the side or second-string - that ain't love. Have enough respect for yourself to insist that others treat you with respect.
2007-11-07 09:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because of loose girls like you that make relationships hard. Maybe you should just go find your own man...even if he does like you then give the guy a freakin chance to break it off with his girlfriend and if you don't take my advice think twice cause what goes around comes around. Don't be so naive to think he wouldn't cheat on you!
2007-11-07 09:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by loseit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sick of these questions. dont you get it? if he likes you while he has a girlfriend..what do u think is going to stop him from liking a different girl when he is with you? and if he isnt breaking up with his current girlfriend then 1. he is an asss and a pusssy, or 2. he still has feelings for her.
you should make a move.
stop talking to him and actaully try to find a good guy.
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okay i take that back. you are both in a relationship and are thinking about this? you are both assholes and would go togther perfectly. GO FOR IT!
2007-11-07 09:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
No dont make the first move, im a guy, i know..It will lower your self image..us guys all want what we cant have, so dont give him any idea that he can have you..he will want you more...but let him know your interested, but add theres no future unless he becomes single..remeber hes a guy, there are millions out there
2007-11-07 09:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Speedstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move if he wants to be with you and not her then let him leave her first if you make a move he might think its OK that he cheat on her with you and that's not fair to either of you
2007-11-07 09:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by scooby93065 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot:
What if YOU had a boyfriend and some other girl tried to put the moves on him?
How would you feel?
Get the picture?
Now, do you know what to do?
2007-11-07 09:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by docscholl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If he already has a steady, doing anything beyond being his friend wouldn't be fair to any of you.
If she leaves him- and she might if she decides she wants to go with someone closer to her own age- THEN you can say more.
2007-11-07 09:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Let him make the first move otherwise he might lose interest in you really quick. If he claims to have feelings for you and vice versa, then he'll come to you.
2007-11-07 09:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by swiftyman08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Don't do anything.
Unless the relationship ends, then it's not your place to make a move.
2007-11-07 09:23:15 · answer #11 · answered by wrialhuden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋