but i feel a little shy and blocked towards him.We never went more far than kissing,we have good time watching movies,talking and teesing each other.We both had other relationships before but i don't know why i feel that i don't want to move fast.He tried to make a move 1 night but i stopped him,so we continue like this.Is it better to leave it for sometime as i enjoy it ?What about him?He seems he can wait ...
2007-11-07 09:19:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he really likes you he can wait. you shouldn't do anything until you feel ready and comfortable to do so.
2007-11-07 09:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great that you feel the need to wait. He also sounds like a great guy if he's not pressuring you to move too fast. Just take your time and get to know each other. Sex will be 100% more pleasurable if you're connected to the person on more than a "physical" level.
You'll know in your heart when the time is right. It will all fall into place.
2007-11-07 09:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's good that he's not pressuring you. ... If you want to wait, then wait. ... Pressuring for anything (taste in clothes, whether or not to have sex, taste in music, friends, etc) has no place in a relationship. .... Just enjoy one another's company and have fun. There's no 'time frame' that's really right. But waiting can't hurt a thing. Until you both are ready, then there's no reason to go to that step.
Good luck.
2007-11-07 09:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Barb B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do more with him, then do it. Making him wait when both of you want to do it is just going to hurt your relationship.
I don't know where people got the impression that sexuality is evil, but it isn't. It is something that all people share in common, and has the potential to be very fulfilling.
2007-11-07 09:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. You sound like you are getting to be really good friends. That's great, and that's really what the basis of a true, real relationship is about. Sex, passion and lust are short term and can mess people up emotionally.
Wait and see if he's someone you really want in your life longterm!!
2007-11-07 09:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by serene e 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do it when you feel its the right time! but keep in mind the more you wait the more he will respect you and want you. I think its still to soon to do it, but it also depends in how long you have known him for. and how close your relationshup is with him!
2007-11-07 09:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you should both wait. Wait until you know what your future holds, and if he will be in it. Just take your time. Enjoy your time together.
2007-11-07 09:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Always wait until you are ready. There is no time frame to tell you. Only you will know if you are ready.
2007-11-07 09:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by ACCOUNT CLOSED 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1 month? Wow. Wait like way longer.
2007-11-07 09:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you feel shy, the time isn't right. wait until you think it feels comfortable for you
2007-11-07 09:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by celestial316 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋