Is calling off a wedding because the excitement of the wedding is no longer there a valid reason?
2007-11-07 08:00:01 · 14 answers · asked by cece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
cheating is a pretty serious indicator.
2007-11-07 08:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by JenniT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you were all about the GETTING married and not so much about the BEING married. If you aren't sure about the marriage part of a wedding, then don't get married. The marriage is all the years and trials and tribulations (and joys!) that follow the wedding. Decide if what you wanted out of an engagement was a wedding or a husband. If it was a wedding, then call it off. Your chances of making it long term aren't so great if you're not prepared for, and willing to do, what it takes to keep a marriage going. And that's not fair to the groom.
I give you credit for examining all this before the wedding, and best wishes to you regardless of what your decision is.
2007-11-07 08:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See, the first problem here is that you're so focused on the wedding that you're not even thinking about the marriage that's supposed to follow! If the thought of spending the rest of your lives together doesn't do it for you, then, yes, it's time to let that person move on and find someone who will want to be with them forever; the wedding is just a means to an end!
2007-11-07 08:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by bainaashanti 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
CeCe, I guess the question would be, ARE you in love? Is this the person you wake up to and just makes you happy knowing they are there. When you're in a pissy mood do they calm you down and make you feel better. Most importantly though, find a friend or family member that you can talk to about your feelings, hell even your signifigant other, jitters are common.
2007-11-07 08:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wedding day may be fun, but its the life after that's important. If you are marrying for the excitement of the day then you're marrying for the wrong reason. If you are no longer excited about the day, but are still excited for the future life then stick with it.
2007-11-07 08:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOT a valid reason, but certainly if you see a lot of second guessing, you may be having jitters
2007-11-07 08:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wedding was planned because it was exciting then someone isn't mature enough to get married.
2007-11-07 08:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tall tale signs? That makes no sense.
2007-11-07 08:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by monicanena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have been feeling like this ~ we all have our doubts & maybe you are just going through a reflective period.
If you are seriously doubting that you want to go through with it then its probably best dealt with sooner rather than later
Good luck
2007-11-07 08:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
That's just rude stupid and immature
You should have never agreed to get married if you did not intend to go thru with it
2007-11-07 08:03:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋