well we were dating and friends for 3 years, we talked for hours on the phone, i always wanted to date other people since im young 23, and busy with school.. he always wanted more but we were good friends, he would call me all the time and talk for 6 hours..
All of sudden i call him, he says "jen is here" i said whos jen?, hes oh my friend want to say hi,
Then i called him another time asking to hang out, hes says sure "Me and jen will meet you"
I didnt say anything but i got the message.
I even asked him another time to do something with me, he said sorry hes busy with jen...
I tried emailing just saying hi and catching up, i got no reply;
I dont really understand? I know he replaced me obviously, but i dont see how he can just get rid of me like this, no contact at all,
its been 6 months now. I miss him alot, My Mom liked him alot, he always came over, she always asks about him.
I felt so bad i was in bed just feeling bad..
2007-11-07 07:07:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
we never had sex, he wanted to but i just didnt feel it was right
2007-11-07 07:09:12 · update #1
we kissed, fooled around, but no sex.
2007-11-07 07:12:57 · update #2
He had romantic feelings for you which you didn't appear to reciprocate. I think it is normal and healthy that he has moved on. It would not be fair to his new relationship for him to still hang out with you since he used to have feelings for you. You didn't take him when you could have had him, so its time to move on and let him go.
2007-11-07 07:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Katie G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You kept the guy at a distance the whole relationship, now that he's found someone else you want him back? You seriously need to take a look at how you handle relationships. You said you wanted to date other people, well here's your chance. Every guy you go out with and break up with is not going to stay single, sit around and pine for you until you make up your mind. Another responder called you a tease and I'm not going to disagree. I find it really amusing you are so surprised at his actions & I am happy for the guy. He was ready for a committed relationship (which is rare in men) and you didn't want it. Now you want him because he's moved on? He didn't want to be your friend, he wanted to be your boyfriend. He has found love elsewhere. You need to move on as well. I don't feel bad for you. You brought this upon yourself.
2007-11-08 10:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Joules Byrne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day, when you fall in love with a guy, I'm sure you won't want him hanging around alone with girls that he used to fancy.
Your friend tried to involve you in a new kind of friendship, that is, one with his girlfriend present. Take it at that level or leave it. He's playing fair, so should you.
2007-11-07 15:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Latte 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You kept the poor guy in the "friend zone" for 3 years and your upset that he found someone who likes him back? Get over yourself you tease.
2007-11-07 16:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Hugh G. Rection 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both were more than JUST friends, he moved on. Good for him, if you liked him you messed up.
2007-11-07 15:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by jon_mac_usa_007 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋