2007-11-07 05:40:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
no, i would try to find out if he is being bullied at school.and find out why he has an enemy list and take it from there.
2007-11-07 09:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal, but it's not be be abnormal either. It could be just his innocent way of amusement, or he's venting his anger that can be over simple things. But if he has a list of people he hates, you should ask him why he has so many enemies. Whether he's doing it for fun, or he's being bullied, or something about other people he's not fond of.
I remember on the Simpsons once, Bart found Principal Skinner's enemy list...
2007-11-07 06:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by jm7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think it is. Whether the list is on paper or in their head there are going to be kids they don't like. I can't beleive people saying it is not normal. How long ago were they 10? Jusy talk to him/her on the reasons why. A good chance they are justified. It doesn't mean they are going to go out and kill them, it just means they are angry at them and are writing it down
2007-11-07 10:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. I have seen teenagers do that, and it's ok as long as this list doesn't include anything about harming or killing them! It's usually harmless but you gotta keep an eye on your kid's attitude, activity, behavior and friends. Look for any signs of a problem.
2007-11-07 05:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually despite the answers here. It's not abnormal but should be talked about to see where his head is.
But it's no different than girls making a friend list...which can also be dangerous and hurtful but I know many do it!
2007-11-07 05:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by radman2035 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's not a "To Kill Next Week" list, you're probably all right. If your son is not acting out violently, he probably just made the list to get out some anger. The best thing to do would be to talk to him and get to the root of the problem and do all you can to help. Good luck!
2007-11-07 05:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Id say it may just be a way of him being able to express something that is bothering him, like you would in a diary. i remember feeling much better just venting on paper after a bad day at school.
I would definately want to ask him if hes being bullied at school though.
2007-11-07 06:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sugga Mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It sounds like he needs to talk to someone. I would ask at school and see if he is having problems. I would also talk to him. Maybe he is being bullied. But something is going on and he needs to talk to someone about it.
2007-11-07 06:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if it's 'normal' or not, but if it was my child, i would make sure to discuss it. see what, if anything, is behind it. i would also keep a watchful eye to see if there were any negative tendencies sprouting up.
2007-11-07 06:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by monket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. teach him that sometimes not everyone gets along with one another and thats normal. ask him whats going on that is making him hate these people. maybe he is getting bullied.
2007-11-07 05:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Miki 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋